We’ve been separated for a few years now, I’ve always I want to have a good coparenting relationship with him and hopefully be friends. Our relationship has always been up and down. We went from talking normal and just texting few times a week to nothing now. He hangs up on me when I call him about the kids, doesn’t answer my texts for hours, or ignores me etc. The children stay at his 3 days a week, today he called me and asked if I can pick up the kids . I told him I couldn’t cuz I have a zoom meeting with a client soon. He gets angry, tells me to pray to God I’ll never need anything from him as he would never piss on me if I was on fire.
He’s always like this, every time you can’t do what he asks you to do, it’s always “ wait til you need something from me..”
It’s very toxic and I just want to have a good parenting relationship with him. Am I being naive here? Is it possible? I care about him, but honestly that “care “ is starting to turn to hate, I look at him and just feel angry sometimes.