Libido and perimenopause

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I’m in a pretty much sexless relationship which is bloody depressing & trying to get counselling to work out a way forward (probably end it)

But separate to that, I have no libido and wonder if it’s linked to perimenopause too? Anyone else had this? I wonder if I could ever even be arsed to have sex again and I find that thought depressing as I feel like I have already missed years in my depressing relationship. Urgh.

I am 48 and wonder if that’s it for me really- that it’s over. I feel surprisingly flat and disinterested at the thought of any of it.

Aibu to think it’s likely to be perimenopause combined with my joyless empty sexless relationship? Anyone else experienced this?

I'm peri menopausal & also have no libido but I am relieved about it rather than disappointed. I feel liberated.

I am single though, this it what stpps me from bring interesyed i a romantic relationship. Couldn't be bothered with the expectation of sex.

@AdaFuckingShelby I think I feel disappointed and a bit denied after my sexless relationship to now feel a bit flat about it. I want to feel like sex!