[quote littlepattilou]@gurglebelly
But frankly the appointment systems throughout the NHS are bloody ridiculous. I mean the whole 'sit and wait for a letter' approach from the hospitals is just as bad, because inevitably it's 'sit and wait for a letter, phone them because you can't attend the appointment they have given you, sit and wait for another letter, phone again......'
This ^ pisses me RIGHT off. DH had to go to a certain specialist for a certain course of treatment in 2018, and he had 5 appointments that were meant to be 6 to 8 weeks apart. He had the first one, and instead of just booking him in for the next one, (where he had his works calendar on his phone,) they said they'd send one out!
Every. SINGLE. TIME the appointment was when he was working. Every single time. The first one he booked the day off, but then with the second one, he wasn't able to, and so he had to change the appointment.
Then a week before the appointment, the bookings line called him to cancel, because the specialist 'would not be available,' and another appointment will come out to him. DH said he needs to make the (new) appointment now, on the phone, because of his odd shift patterns, and the high chance the appointment will be when he is at work.
They basically said 'well sorry but you did change the original appointment we gave you. 
He said 'yes I cancelled if because I couldn't get the time off! And re-made it for a time I CAN make it. Now when this new appointment comes in a week, the chances are high that I will have to change this too! Can I not just make one over the phone now, while I have my shift pattern in front of me?' They said 'no it doesn't work like that.' 
As a pp said, they can't just assume everyone is going to be able to make the appointment time and day they send out, and they can't just assume most people don't work!
This happened so many times over 5-6 months in 2018, that it almost reduced us to tears of frustration.[/quote]
Oh I know, before covid I got a bollocking from my specialist for not being back to see him soon enough for a routine appointment - but it took 3 rounds of waiting for letters and phoning before I could get an appointment I could do!
And that's not me being inflexible, I'll always move stuff around where I can but one was the day I flew out of the country for 2.5 weeks, the second came through for two weeks later (which given that I had told them that I was out of the country for 3 weeks in the first call really irritated me) and the third was when I was running a 2 day meeting with 20 people from across Europe and it was 11.45 (which basically wiped the day out).
The booking lady sounded most pissed off and suggested that I should have cancelled the meeting, but on what planet do they think it's possible to change a meeting for 20 people (who have flights and accommodation booked) which has been in the diary for months, because of the NHS love of appointment bingo? Once again if I'd been able to book it online or over the phone with my diary in front of me it wouldn't have been an issue, it makes me so cross how inefficient it all is.