Shocked, upset and angry

[Icanflyhigh]

I hosted a work zoom meeting tonight and about half way through a late attendee arrived and my co-host admitted them to the meeting.
It was the man who raped me 6 years ago. I removed him from the meeting very quickly.
My work is very public, but over the last few months this man has tried to join some of my work related fb groups, and he must have googled my name to get the details of the meeting off the meeting agenda.
I did report him to the police after he raped me, he is an ex.
He was arrested and questioned and cautioned but never charged as CPS said insufficient evidence because I didn't report straight away. I was the second person to allege this against him apparently.
I'm now scared of hosting further meetings. Do I report this to police also?
He has no reason to be joining the meeting, even though they're public, he isn't local to me (I don't think) and as far as I know he got married a few years ago. Is this stalker behaviour?
I have to tell the co-host of the meeting tomorrow why I was so useless for the rest of the meeting tonight, and I just wanted to leave this all behind years ago where it belongs.

This is awful OP. The Suzy Lamplugh Trust may also be able to give advice and advocate for you.

I'll try to answer the questions as I read them.

My job is public facing and the meetings I host are public meetings, it is legislated that the zoom link and pass code are made public on each and every agenda.
As far as I am aware this man lives over 130 miles away from me so would/should have no interest in a meeting regarding anything about anywhere near where I live.

I've tried every which way to give benefit of doubt that he could have stumbled across it accidentally, but he would have to Google my name to know where I work and then go and search the website for the latest agenda with meeting details as I don't put them on social media. It's highly unlikely its accidental. The other option is that he's been back to where I live and read the details from the noticeboard in the village- which unsettles me further.

I'm more confused as to why.

My address and phone number (landline) are public, I can't do anything about this as its connected to my job.

I want to think he's searched me out of morbid curiosity but I'm struggling with that top as his name has popped up too many times just latelyfor it.to be coincidence.

I have an online report form open and I have located the details of the officer who dealt with the case at the time. I also have the number to hand for the victim support team who may be able to tell me what I should do once I've reported it.

I dont want to go back to being that scared shell of a person I was all those years ago.

He's cyber-stalking you.

Contact paladinservice.co.uk/

@dworky I can't see any link from my phone, do you mind telling me the place to click and I'll go and have a look.

@Icanflyhigh

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