Ok so this is really weird.
Last week I posted about being scared of discussing finances with dp. After some amazing replies I realised I need to get out of my relationship. Because I am scared of confrontation I decided to wait until yesterday when he would get an alert from his bank to say he had gone into his overdraft ..... he always contacts me when that happens .... which would be a natural opening to the conversation where I was going to tell him I'm no longer happy and want him to leave.
However he didn't bring it up at all. Not even all evening, when he had opportunity to, and he would usually text me during the day to see what was going on and check I had sorted it.
I discussed the situation with my sister over the weekend when he was out where I told her my plan and how I was unhappy.
The thing is this isn't the only time this has happened....my sister wants to move closer to me and a few weeks ago I was talking to her about her possibly moving in with me while she looks for somewhere. A couple of days later she called about something else and afterwards dp joked about how we were planning to kick him out so she could move in.
This isn't the only incident like this over the last few months. I just thought that he was just really intuitive but suddenly it seems really odd...mainly as he has not even mentioned the overdraft which he would always always do.
Am I being paranoid? Or does it seem a bit suspicious? He is a very suspicious and paranoid person (in the early days of our relationship I would get increasingly desperate texts if out with friends as he would think I was meeting other men) and has joked before about putting up a webcam so he can check the kids were behaving when we were both at work. Is there a chance he has done this or set up something to record conversations at home? And how on earth would I find out?
I don't like to think this is the case but it is all starting to seem really odd and too many coincidences.