To think he used Kik for sexting?

[MegMogandOg]

My ex had Kik on his phone. I thought it was like WhatsApp. He had a very high sex drive but we went months without sex at the end of our relationship. I looked up Kik and it’s listed with lots of hookup sites. Is this why he would have it or am I paranoid? And yes I do want to know now even now it’s over it does matter to me to know.

So the general consensus is either for meeting people through dating sites or sex workers?

He didn’t use drugs I’m sure of that.

Pretty much the only reason people use kik is to hide something - they either don’t want people in their life to know they’re talking to X kik person, or they don’t want X kik person to know who they are

So he could have used it to sext

I’d say normal dating sites, married dating sites or Fabswingers type of thing.

He is your ex - why does it matter?
If you think he was playing around whilst in the relationship, get yourself checked for STDs. but seriously, why give headspace to what he might or might not have been doing on his phone of you're no longer together?

It’s definitely dodgy. Even when I was online dating, asking to use kik was a big red flag to me! If you have nothing to hide what’s the problem with someone having your number? Worst case scenario you can block them.

It matters because I’ve ended the marriage and I need to have a clear conscience looking back on it. I felt things were off often but any suggestion of anything was met with derision or mockery etc. After separating he used his being horny as a valid excuse to send me texts I didn’t want to receive and I started looking back at the marriage and riveting how such a horny man coped during the spells when we weren’t having sex.

Wondering not riveting. I do not find it riveting 🧐

Sounds as if you're well rid of him! - celebrate and move on, enjoy being single and independent.
Find something fun to be riveted by

His phone was always fingerprint locked. I think I saw it very quickly once . He was always very private. I once accused him of looking at porn because every time I approached his computer he seemed to close a screen but he acted horrified at the suggestion .