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Dentist demanding payment today for an appointment next week

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TrojaninTroy · 11/03/2021 14:01

I just received a text from my dental practice asking me to ring them (with no explanation given). I rang straight away and was told that I needed to pay for my hygienist appointment, which is in five days' time. On previous appointments at this dental practice (including one recent, very expensive one for dental implant surgery), I have always been asked to pay at the end of the appointment.

When I asked why I needed to pay now, I was told that it was to stop people touching the payment machine at the surgery. I stated that I was not in a position to pay today and that I would pay next week. The receptionist was having none of it, and the reason then changed to 'lots people don't turn up, and so we need to get payment from you in advance'. She was not best pleased when I re-stated that I would pay next week and she hinted that they may have to cancel the appointment.

I can't deny that dental practices need to be cautious because of COVID, and I appreciate that some patients may not turn up. But I wasn't expecting to have to pay today, and my credit card account is very full right now (partly because of previous dental implant treatment), and so I would rather wait until next week to pay, by which time my statement date will have gone by. I don't see that I need to tell her that I am feeling a bit broke right now. The point is that I will pay for the appointment, either shortly before, or immediately after it takes place.

I am not made of money, but I wouldn't dream of not turning up, nor of evading payment for a dentist's appointment. I just didn't expect to have to pay today, on demand. Was my stance unreasonable? I feel a bit uncomfortable about going now.

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CoffeeRunner · 11/03/2021 14:05

YANBU. I think.

My hairdresser asks for a 20% deposit from people who have previously not turned up (no explanation, no phoning to cancel) but nothing for everyone else.

I find it odd that they asked you to prepay a quick check up but not expensive treatment.

TrojaninTroy · 11/03/2021 16:33

Sorry about the poll. I didn't know that was going to appear.

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Wannakisstheteacher · 11/03/2021 16:38

There was someone on here not long along who actively planned to have dental treatment she couldn’t pay for. That is why they ask for payment in advance.

Sparklesocks · 11/03/2021 16:53

I’ve paid a deposit upfront for dental work recently, just stops no-shows as the dentists at that practice are so in demand. But I suppose that’s different to paying in full in advance.

NuclearDH · 11/03/2021 16:56

My dentist does this just for the hygienist appt.

toomanyspiderplants · 11/03/2021 17:01

I think neither of you are unreasonable. .,but I bet they have a lot of no shows and non payers.

WhiteBricks · 11/03/2021 17:01

I have had to do this this morning, however I'm a new patient and the receptionist said it was to reduce no shows. It's transferrable as long as they have 24 hours notice. Different for you OP as it's not your first appointment. I'd expect an email with details of the change in policy.

WhenLifeReturns · 11/03/2021 17:03

This is ridiculous. You don't pay for a service until its received. Also what would happen if you needed to isolate. They'd have to go through the trouble of refunding. It doesn't sit well with me. I wonder if they're in financial difficulty. 🤔

OilBeefHooked · 11/03/2021 17:13

Ours has always made you pay half upfront on booking a hygienist appointment - do they get more no shows with hygienist appointments?

IAmStrange · 11/03/2021 17:14

@NuclearDH

My dentist does this just for the hygienist appt.
Mine does this too
TankGirl97 · 11/03/2021 17:16

We've been asked to call them a week ahead to pay too. I was told when I booked the appointment though. I got the impression they don't want anyone in the waiting room or at reception.

eggandonion · 11/03/2021 17:16

My hygienist is self employed, not a member of staff. She has her own account system. It may be that her system is different to the dentist system?
But I pay on the day for all treatment.

lurker101 · 11/03/2021 17:18

I had to pay 50% recently for dental appointment (and possibly optician, but I can’t remember) to cover risk of no-shows

Nospringchickendipper · 11/03/2021 17:18

That is the policy now at our dentist.I have to pay for the hygienist when I make the booking.
Not sure what would happen if they turn me away when I go if I have a temp would they still charge me.

peak2021 · 11/03/2021 17:19

I am sure there are people who don't pay. However, a system to pay before you arrive, perhaps the day before, should be sufficient. Not the previous week.

YANBU.

Tabitha005 · 11/03/2021 17:27

I understand some services such as dentists making a charge ahead of treatment, but I wouldn't be paying the full cost up front. I made an enquiry about becoming a patient at a new dental practice recently as I've moved home, and the very first thing they said when they replied to my email was that I'd have to pay then £100 towards the cost of my first consultation and any subsequent treatment. I won't be going there - it just felt way too 'grabby' as an opener if what they're hoping to do is attract new clients.

Speakuptomakeyourselfheard · 11/03/2021 17:28

I think expecting anyone to pay for a service before they've had it is totally unreasonable. Ask for a deposit maybe, as this would help stop no shows, but I would be very wary of paying up front, as even dentists can be crooks, and if they're in financial difficulties, who is to say that they won't have gone bust before your appointment, taking your money with them? I would perhaps agree to pay a small deposit to show willing, but as they've announced this change out of the blue, I'd be worried.

PatsyStone39 · 11/03/2021 17:29

I had to pat a £60 deposit to book a dental appointment recently. It's ridiculous.

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