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Child struggling physically in school

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diagold4u · 10/03/2021 11:50

I don't even know if the title makes sense
My son 8 years, has been coming back from school the last couple of days in a lot of pain in his legs, foot and thighs mainly. He's practically struggling to walk back home, it's only a 10min walk. I can see how much pain he is in, he is the type of child that wouldn't moan unless he's in actual pain. I've been getting him to have a soak straight after school in the hope it'll relax his pain. When he is in bed, he is saying the pain isn't as bad now but it's still there. This morning the pain was also there.
Am putting it down to being at home/lockdown, where he has the pleasure of lounging around, and now in school you are pretty much on your feet all day. I told him it may take a couple of weeks for his body to get used to being back at school again.
I know his pain is genuine, at home he'll be walking really slow, even getting up from the sofa he does it really slow and I really can see he's in pain.
I wanted to send an email to his teacher just to make her aware as I don't want them thinking he's just slow, and I imagine when he's in pain he won't be his jolly self, I don't know exactly how to word it!

My other child who is younger than him, has been perfectly fine in school, no leg pain.
Should I speak to a doctor or give it a week atleast?

Has anyone else's child been like this or similar?

Also to add in lockdown, we did go for walks, playing in the garden, running about in the house, playing tag, constant movement, just adding that before anyone thinks he's just been sat at home the past how many months.

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BlankTimes · 10/03/2021 12:28

Can you get him a physio or OT assessment either self-referral or via the GP? Both should be able to advise on his physical tone now and any suitable exercises to help.

Just a thought, how 'bendy' is he normally? Joint hypermobility isn't often picked up until a child's in pain. www.theschoolrun.com/hypermobility-in-primary-schools

spiderlight · 10/03/2021 12:31

I would definitely see a doctor about this. Hypermobility was the first thing that sprang to mind.

petitdonkey · 10/03/2021 12:37

Please see your gp- my friends daughter was diagnosed with arthritis aged 10 after years of complaining about leg pain and not really being believed. I’m not saying that to scare you but you say that you can see the pain he is in- trust your instinct x

diagold4u · 10/03/2021 14:37

Oh gosh, I really hope taht isn't the case, will call doctors first thing tmrw morning

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spiderlight · 10/03/2021 15:16

It'll probably be nothing but it's worth getting it checked out. It may be as simple as walking differently because he's not used to being in school shoes all day!

diagold4u · 10/03/2021 17:08

He came back today so much better!! And happier! He said his legs haven't been hurting much today, so am thinking it's just his body adjusting to school life again

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Tomnooktoldmeto · 10/03/2021 17:09

He does sound like me, my hyper mobility went undiagnosed till my 20’s when I finally dislocated a joint

Definitely ask the doctor for a physiotherapist assessment, my Dd was assessed and help put in place before her teens and she’s fared better than me

nothingcanhurtmewithmyeyesshut · 10/03/2021 17:41

It might also be his shoes if they're new. I went from boots with a bit of heel to completely flat boots and the pain in my shins and ankles was crazy. Just a different set of muscles I suppose.

HavelockVetinari · 10/03/2021 17:41

Definitely get a GP appt, that kind of pain isn't normal. Don't wait for it to happen again - if he is hypermobile there'll be things that can be done to help. There are a couple of other things too that it might be (v rare but best to be safe) so he should have a blood test.

Boho7 · 10/03/2021 17:46

Growing pains?

lljkk · 10/03/2021 17:49

Sudden onset makes me think it's due to a recent change not a chronic condition suddenly apparent.

diagold4u · 10/03/2021 18:02

@Boho7 yes it did occur to me could it be growing pains

I think I still will give the doctors a call just to be on the safe side
I've just remembered now, even when he was aged between 2-5 years, he would get tired quite quickly when walking, dh would have to then carry him. I remember not wanting to take him shops with me as I knew he would moan he's tired, i then would have to rush back home. I just thought that's what all children must be like, they perhaps get bored and express it as tired, not wanting to walk. However second child can walk loads before getting tired

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