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To get a cleaner for my tiny 1 bedroom 3 room flat?

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LudoBear · 09/03/2021 14:26

I live in a tiny one bedroom flat. Bedroom just fits in double bed pushed up against wall & wardrobe. Kitchen & lounge are open plan. Kitchen is absolutely tiny, 3x3 foot floor space. Bathroom is same size as kitchen. Just to give you an idea of size.

I live alone, no pets, don't work. Yet I struggle so much to keep on top of the housework. I am in the process of being diagnosed with ADHD and I'm 99.9% certain I've got it.

My flat is a complete and utter pig sty. I've got boiler service tomorrow and I'm desperately trying to get my flat clean and tidy as it's so embarrassing. I won't let anyone other than my mum into my flat as it's so disgusting. Dishes overflowing in sink, kitchen sides covered in cooking spillages etc. Couldnt tell you the last time I dusted.

I know I should clean as I go but unless you've got ADHD it's easier said than done.

Would it be odd to get someone to clean one hour a fortnight? I cant afford more often.

I'm sat in tears writing this as I'm so overwhelmed.

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BrightYellowDaffodil · 10/03/2021 11:59

YANBU to get a cleaner if you want to. I don't have any reason not to clean my house (also a one-bedroom flat) except I don't want to. I can afford a cleaner so I get them to do it instead. I never understand why people think you should only have a cleaner if you've got a good reason!

Deadposhtory · 10/03/2021 12:03

Poor you op, you have my sympathy. I'm not a cleaner either so I pay for a two hour clean each week and it's been a game changer.
Go for it

Wondermule · 10/03/2021 12:04

Not at all, distribution of wealth and all that. Your money and you can spend it on what you like. I think a clean and tidy home is a good spend because it’s great for your mental health.

kittycorner · 10/03/2021 12:06

It’s a really good idea @LudoBear. Maybe if you had them come do a deep clean first, that may take 2-3 hours and then had someone come on a schedule to help you stay on track. Even having someone pop in weekly or every other week will be a big support. There’s no shame in needing help. You are being smart to think of the supports you need!

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