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Troublewaters2021 · 07/03/2021 20:37

My DD8 had a heart transplant a few years ago now, she has been struggling this year on and off after a few good years. She has some changes in her cardiac echo however they said they would unlikely get worse they wasn’t really sure on the significance of the findings.
At 5.45 tonight she went in to perri arrest.
They were amazing and everything had happened so fast, she is stabilised in CICU. No one is allowed in apart from me she looks very peaceful, I am waiting for consultants.
I have been on here a while and sending myself crazy looking at the clock with no one to cry to.
It all happened so fast she was playing in the back and then she came through to say she didn’t feel well. Went to get her some paracetamol and when I came back in she was on the floor.

OP posts:
HappyHedgehog247 · 08/03/2021 21:14

Thinking of you both. Glad they know what they are dealing with. You must be exhausted and terrified. Hang on in there for your gorgeous girl xx

Catsrus · 08/03/2021 21:16

how terrifying for you @Troublewaters2021 - sending lots of positive vibes (and keeping fingers crossed) for you and DD 🤞

WingingIt101 · 08/03/2021 21:19

Sending you and your DD lots of love and support from afar. I can’t imagine what you are feeling x

TechGinny · 08/03/2021 21:20

Oh god OP, sending lots of love and a firm hand hold Flowers

WingingItSince1973 · 08/03/2021 21:20

What a super scary time for you all. Hope the next few days gives her strength and fight. She sounds amazing. Hugs and lots of love x

Hm2020 · 08/03/2021 21:21

Wow my thoughts re With you and your family and your amazing daughter Flowers

Hesma · 08/03/2021 21:21

Hand hold from me OP 💐

CosmicComfort · 08/03/2021 21:22

Oh god, how horrendous. My heart was in my mouth reading your opening post.

Thinking of you and your DD and sending lots of positive thoughts and love💕

sammyjoanne · 08/03/2021 21:24

My daughter had SVT episode, and heart rate was 240bpm and they had to restart it. I understand how scary it can be. Handhold Flowers , shes definitely in the right place x

Lochmorlich · 08/03/2021 21:28

Wishing your dc well OP. Flowers

MrPanks · 08/03/2021 21:29

Hand hold here OP. Keeping your DD in my prayers tonight x

lynxca16 · 08/03/2021 21:30

Handhold, love and hugs.
Thinking of you

Honeypickle · 08/03/2021 21:30

Thinking of you xxx

rooarsome · 08/03/2021 21:34

Thinking of your little girl and your family at this awful time x

SirVixofVixHall · 08/03/2021 21:34

Sending get well thoughts and hoping that this is an upward stretch now. Very sorry that she has needed serious surgical intervention today, what a lot you have all been through. ❤️ To your little girl and you.

Ilikegherkins · 08/03/2021 21:36

Sending a big hug. 💐

Scandie · 08/03/2021 21:44

Sending an absolute tonne of love. That sounds scary and I wish her a full & speedy recovery

doodleygirl · 08/03/2021 21:50

Thinking of you both, and sending lots of love and good wishes

Dwrcegin · 08/03/2021 21:54

Flowers Best wishes to you both OP.

scaredsadandstuck · 08/03/2021 21:57

Oh gosh OP. Thinking of you and your LO Flowers

Imelda03 · 08/03/2021 21:58

Thinking about you and your little one OP. Flowers

Felifox · 08/03/2021 22:00

💕 and🙏 for your dd and hand hold to you. I can't imagine how stressful this is especially when only one person can be at the hospital.

SunshineCake · 08/03/2021 22:03

Someone else who will be thinking of your little girl and hoping for the best Flowers.

DrIrisFenby · 08/03/2021 22:07

Sending you and your family love x

dillydallydollydaydream7 · 08/03/2021 22:09

Handhold Thanks

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