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AIBU?

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I need a hand to hold.

567 replies

Troublewaters2021 · 07/03/2021 20:37

My DD8 had a heart transplant a few years ago now, she has been struggling this year on and off after a few good years. She has some changes in her cardiac echo however they said they would unlikely get worse they wasn’t really sure on the significance of the findings.
At 5.45 tonight she went in to perri arrest.
They were amazing and everything had happened so fast, she is stabilised in CICU. No one is allowed in apart from me she looks very peaceful, I am waiting for consultants.
I have been on here a while and sending myself crazy looking at the clock with no one to cry to.
It all happened so fast she was playing in the back and then she came through to say she didn’t feel well. Went to get her some paracetamol and when I came back in she was on the floor.

OP posts:
Cleaningjusttocleanagain · 08/03/2021 18:00

Handhold here xx I really hope she pulls through this ❤️

Cagedbirdsinging · 08/03/2021 18:02

Hand holding here too .

tensmum1964 · 08/03/2021 18:07

Thinking of you. XX

babymidgetgem · 08/03/2021 18:09

Sending you so much love and strength Flowers

NewMumma1819 · 08/03/2021 18:13

Flowers sending hugs x

Itsabeautifuldaytosavelives · 08/03/2021 18:17

Another hand to hold here. Thinking of you xx

HaveeeeYouMetTed · 08/03/2021 18:20

Thinking of you & your daughter x

JustDavesWife · 08/03/2021 18:29

Thinking of you both xx

UnsureAndUnsteady · 08/03/2021 18:30

Sending love to you both xx

Queenie6655 · 08/03/2021 18:35

Still here and said some special prayers ❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏

Mummy7777 · 08/03/2021 18:38

How are you op? How's your daughter?

4Mongrels · 08/03/2021 18:39

Thinking of you still.

Meezer2 · 08/03/2021 18:40

Hand hold from me 💐

Harryo · 08/03/2021 18:41

Thinking of you and your daughter @Troublewaters2021. I hope things are turning a corner.

XelaM · 08/03/2021 18:43

Sending my best wishes to you

Nomorepies · 08/03/2021 18:49

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Toasty280 · 08/03/2021 19:17

Hand hold here x

Roszie · 08/03/2021 19:52

Hoping things are okay for you OP

Troublewaters2021 · 08/03/2021 19:58

Hi sorry, it’s been up and down, thank you for the support. There was a complication which unfortunately has required life changing surgery for her.
The cultures have come back and now they know what they are dealing with they have changed IV antibiotics to sensitive ones.
She is still intubated but got through.
I’m just heading home to collect some
Things.

OP posts:
happytravels · 08/03/2021 20:01

Oh goodness you need some rest too. I hope you're eating and drinking. My thoughts are with you.

fuzzymoon · 08/03/2021 20:04

I'm so sorry that her condition had deteriorated again.
I don't have the right words but I am thinking of you and wishing your little one a safe recovery.
I so hope the effects of the surgery aren't too devastating. Thanks

KeziaOAP · 08/03/2021 20:07

Hand hold here. Thinking of you and Dd.

beingajen · 08/03/2021 20:12

Thinking of you and you LO Thanks

RandomMess · 08/03/2021 20:14
Thanks

Thinking of you, sending hugs

mbosnz · 08/03/2021 20:17

A Kiwi in the UK here to handhold. Kia kaha to your beautiful girl, and her wonderful Mum (keep strong).

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