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Breadcrumbs?

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thinkful · 05/03/2021 20:15

So a guy i met at work a few years ago then lost touch with and got close to recently told me he was seeing someone else. I blocked him for a few days then unblocked and suggested we reset as friends. He went a bit weird, said he wanted to be friends then said he wanted me then said he didn't, blocked me then called, said he didn't want me to constantly message him. As if i would!

Anyway, we haven't spoken for a few days... Then tonight, he called me. I didn't answer and he texted that he hopes I'm okay. I replied I'm doing great. He says good, he's okay too.

Wtf. Breadcrumbs? Does he think he hurt me and feel guilty? Why am i even bothered!

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TaraR2020 · 05/03/2021 20:20

Just ignore him, I think he was stung by your rejection and now trying to draw you back in for his ego. Give him a wide birth, live your life and let him see what he's missing :)

PurpleDaisies · 05/03/2021 20:21

Block and delete. Not worth the headspace.

FrankButchersDickieBow · 05/03/2021 20:24

Nothing to do except block. He wants you to be his 'beck and call' girl.

Take back the power and block block block. Also delete delete delete.

1Morewineplease · 05/03/2021 20:25

Just block him! Why are you giving him headspace?

thinkful · 05/03/2021 20:34

Thank you all. He's not worth the headspace i know, and he demands a lot. I've had a good week actually being able to focus on work and other things i have going on. I was happy to hear from him tho argh stupid.

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