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"Indoor cat"

237 replies

ilovesouthlondon · 03/03/2021 17:00

Is it cruel to keep a cat indoors and never let it out? Opinions please!

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Imapotato · 03/03/2021 17:53

It depends on the cat. If the two cats I’ve had (not counting the ones I had as a child) one loved going out. He could go off for days at a time and was a real cat about town. It wouldn’t have been fair to keep him in and he would have been miserable as an indoor cat.

My current cat is much more of a home loving boy. He is allowed out, but rarely chooses to for more than a few minutes. He’d be fine as an indoor cat.

The problem is you don’t know what their character will be before you get them. Unless you get a breed cat, I think that generally they’re more accepting of staying indoors.

LilMidge01 · 03/03/2021 17:53

My mum had an indoor cat- was a rescue and had only ever been indoor so she had to keep it that way. she did take it out supervised in the garden (only with her there too) and it enjoyed it a bit but enevr showed a desire to leave and seemed pretty on edge whilst out there.
That cat had a very long and happy life.

However, I live in London and to be honest, I feel for some cats- they are naturally territorial and as a result having so many in such a tight knit urban environment can be quite stressful for some of them who dont want to fight for turf/fight other cats out of their garden and who just want a quiet life

endlesswicker · 03/03/2021 17:53

I've had cats all my life, and they have all been different in whether they liked being outside or not. The one we have at the moment can't see very well, so she rarely goes out at all, but one we had a few years ago would have literally climbed the walls to break free, and used to go walkabout for days at a time in the summer months. It would have been totally cruel to have confined him, he would have gone stark raving mad.

Ponoka7 · 03/03/2021 17:54

Unless it's a breed suited to being indoors, it's cruel. Have you enjoyed lick down and staying in? We have lots to amuse us, so why did any of us need to go out?

There are older etc indoor cats up for rescue, so go for one of them.

Haffiana · 03/03/2021 17:56

@pawsies

Indoor cats should be the norm.

Why would you want to risk your beloved pet to the dangers of being run over/upsetting neighbours/getting attacked/getting into fights etc?

At least the owner deals with the responsibilities of the indoor cat like cleaning the litter tray etc.

I don't see the point in having a pet that you don't take full responsibility for (if you let it out to explore the neighbourhood).

Of course there is an easy compromise to all of this which is to cat proof your garden so the cat gets the best of both worlds but unfortunately a lot of owners seem reluctant to do this.

This is all about the risk to the owner.

Most cat owners consider what is best for the cat.

CausingChaos2 · 03/03/2021 17:57

I’ve had both. Now indoor/ with access to my garden only. I think it’s cruel to let them outside. I don’t want my pets crushed to death under the wheels of a car. They aren’t any more able to keep themselves safe than dogs are.

maxineputyourredshoeson · 03/03/2021 17:58

I have two cats - my girl (younger of the two) goes out here there and everywhere. My boy goes as far as popping his head out of the cat flap and that’s enough for him. He does enjoy sitting with the back door open watching it snow when we get it. He is a real scaredy-cat though, he literally hid under our bed for 7 weeks when we put the Christmas decorations up one year (we had to put his food, water and litter tray Envy - not envy under our bed (we slept in the spare room)).

Wineisrequired · 03/03/2021 17:58

We rescued an indoor cat and up until a few weeks ago he has expressed zero interest in going outside. He has recently started following me out into the garden but only stays out there for a few minutes . Id be worried about him going out all the time as we live near a busy road

Ilovemaisie · 03/03/2021 17:59

My parents cat is quite happy to be indoors most of the time. She was a rescue cat who when they got her had already been a 'teen' mum (got pregnant while outside presumably) She is perfectly happy to be indoors sleeping in a sunbeam. She ventures outside every so often but it will sometimes be that say you are going out to hang the washing out she will come with you and sit next to you watching and then come back in with you. In summer they tend to keep the patio doors open so she will wander out for a bit but again seems to prefer it if someone is out there too. Doesn't like being on her own. Quite frankly I am jealous of her life and frequently wish I could swap places.

Spidey66 · 03/03/2021 18:01

Unless there's a good reason, such as feline HIV, I think it's cruel.

DwangelaForever · 03/03/2021 18:03

My cat is an exotic shorthair and had been an indoor cat all his life. I certainly don't see it as cruel HmmHmmHmmHmm.

Almondmilkgranola · 03/03/2021 18:04

My 2 year old tabby moggy's a house cat. Got her as a 9 week old kitten with the intention of keeping her indoors as we live on a busy road, cat proofing the garden not possible and also a not great urban area where I'd be worried about her being stolen/cruelty/getting injured by the numerous street wise pet cats and strays round here.

Had her spayed at 6 months so she has no desire to roam and she's a very human orientated cat, loves the company of the whole family. Never asks to go out. As we only have a small house, decided to get her as a singleton and it was the right decision. As an adult she's quite independent, not friendly to next doors outdoor cat or the numerous other cats that come through our garden. She has the whole house as her territory and seems to like it that way! We have high ceilings, cat trees (she still climbs curtainsGrin) large windows, I have a flat cats mesh screen over the kitchen window I always keep open so she has lots of fresh air and sunlight. Garden backs on to trees so she loves bird watching from the kitchen and watching the world go by on the living room window sill looking out on our busy street. Has lots of stimulation, toys. With numerous other cats around outside I keep her up to date with monthly flea and worming drops from vets and vaccinations.

In an area like ours I think cats should be indoor with the traffic, toileting in neighbours tiny gardens isn't great (I have that problem with next doors cat coming in ours!) and the other risks.

Grew up in the countryside surrounded by farm cats and that's obviously a more suitable outdoor environment.

Notnownotneverever · 03/03/2021 18:05

I think it’s fine to have an indoor cat but just chose the cat carefully. It would be cruel to get a young moggy and try and keep it indoors. But a specific breed known for it or a cat from a rescue centre that is nervous or older would be fine living their best life indoors.
One of my two cats loves being outside 50% of the day although generally nearby. The other older one pops out about twice a day for 5 mins and is within 3 metres of the garden at all times. If I call she literally just appears instantly.

Cleebope2 · 03/03/2021 18:05

I have had 4 cats all rescue and the first two roamed but I actually cried when they killed our beautiful garden birds so I vowed to get no more cats. I was overruled by my family. I currently have an old girl who runs and hides under the bed if I try to put her outside (so funny) unless it’s warm and sunny. The kitten is now nine months and causing me conflict. She wants to roam but I couldn’t bear it if she kills my birds whom I feed daily and who like to nest in our garden. Also lots of cats get run over by cars round here and she might get lost. At the moment she just mews through the window and sleeps and plays indoors but I do want to give her a choice. I don’t think it’s cruel though. In Canada and Australia some places have bans on cats going out as they decimate wildlife. All over Europe and the world cats live happily in high rises with no gardens so I think as long as they’re well looked after it’s up to the owner.

MiddleClassProblem · 03/03/2021 18:06

@DwangelaForever

My cat is an exotic shorthair and had been an indoor cat all his life. I certainly don't see it as cruel HmmHmmHmmHmm.
In my head, your cat has a fruit bowl, including a pineapple, on its head and you have an mini indoor waterfall for it to lounge in all day whilst your Echo plays rainforest noises.
Same4Walls · 03/03/2021 18:10

I think it’s fine to have an indoor cat but just chose the cat carefully. It would be cruel to get a young moggy and try and keep it indoors.

Ours were kittens when we got them and well used to being outside as that's where they had spent their whole lives. Unfortunately for their health safety of other cats they have to stay inside but obviously they dont know why because they are cats. The same would be true of deaf cats. It's really not as simple as just getting an older cat.

Cloudyrainsham · 03/03/2021 18:11

I don’t think.it’s cruel but I wouldn’t keep a car in. I watch that American program with the badly behaved cars and always think it’s because they’re bored senseless, stuck in the house all the time.

mbosnz · 03/03/2021 18:12

Mine is a bat brained, wonky whiskered, lardy arsed siamese, who comes from generations of indoor apartment cats. She got to the point where she was not happy being indoors, we let her outdoors under supervision, one night she hopped the fence and we lost her for two days.

Thankfully she came back. She is only allowed outside under constant supervision. She is happy once she's jumped the fence, headed straight for the main road, on being corralled back, trying to go through the neighbour's trellis, then gone under yet another neighbours car, finally to flick her back legs in irritation as she heads back inside. . .

Really she gets the best of both worlds. And she doesn't get run over, and neither does the wild-life get (a most unlikely scenario, given she stands out like a sore thumb) decimated.

therocinante · 03/03/2021 18:13

We adopted a pair of cats we'd been told were indoor only, always had been and they hated outside. As we lived near a busy road at the time (with plans to move in future but not immediately), we were delighted that we could get the cats we wanted without feeling guilty for keeping them in.

Both of them were TERRORS - yowling all night, anxious behaviour, all the things the person we adopted them off said had put him off owning cats (poor babies) - until we moved 6 months later to a quiet culdesac with loads of green space and started letting them out. They're so much happier catching flies, climbing trees, and running all their energy off outdoors - when they come home their toys barely get a look in any more and they're both such content, relaxed cats.

Their younger sibling, however, is a lazy boy who isn't arsed - he goes out occasionally for a sniff and doesn't seem scared at all, but he is perfectly happy inside. I think if it suits the cat, then fine, but keeping cats inside for no good reason is cruel - especially as so few people seem to understand how high cats play/exercise needs are. When we had our older two indoors we would spent at least an hour a day playing with them - fetch, laser pen, fluffy snakes, proper active engaging play with new toys all the time to mix it up and keep them mentally engaged - and it still wasn't enough.

onlyreadingneverposting8 · 03/03/2021 18:13

Our 4 cats choose to be inside! Believe me I've tried to encourage them out but it has never worked!! There are pros and cons to them being indoor cats. They are healthier and unlikely to get illness. They won't kill birds and other wildlife. The downside is that I worry about they miss enrichment& exercise from being outside and I have a litter tray that requires cleaning out everyday.

Barksmum12 · 03/03/2021 18:14

We have an outdoor cat, but only when it's 24 degrees and sunny. 🙄

Cloudyrainsham · 03/03/2021 18:16

@pawsies

Indoor cats should be the norm.

Why would you want to risk your beloved pet to the dangers of being run over/upsetting neighbours/getting attacked/getting into fights etc?

At least the owner deals with the responsibilities of the indoor cat like cleaning the litter tray etc.

I don't see the point in having a pet that you don't take full responsibility for (if you let it out to explore the neighbourhood).

Of course there is an easy compromise to all of this which is to cat proof your garden so the cat gets the best of both worlds but unfortunately a lot of owners seem reluctant to do this.

What utter rubbish. Cats like to roam and climb and hunt. It’s instinctive to them.

Keeping them locked indoors makes the owner feel happy, not the cat.

Swimandpepsi · 03/03/2021 18:16

I think it is somewhat cruel if the cat has been used to being outside. My garden has cat fencing so my cats can’t leave the garden which is good for them as they love being outside but gives me peace of mind that they are safe.

DwangelaForever · 03/03/2021 18:16

LOLOL I think this would suit his personality very well Grin he would love an indoor waterfall but alas he just has to make do with meowing at me to turn the tap on when he wants a drink (won't drink from a bowl)

MissConductUS · 03/03/2021 18:17

Mine are indoors only. We have coyotes in the area frequently.