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To delay this cataract op?

16 replies

pelagra · 03/03/2021 16:11

Optician identified a fast growing cataract and referred me to specialist clinic, saying they may not operate, but she wanted their opinion. I arrived at the clinic, less than week later, to find it was the surgery pre-assessment clinic. I was told that the longer I delay the more difficult the op becomes, and scheduled for late this month.

However, I have a lazy eye, so bad that I struggle to read the second line in a sight chart, and the cataract is in my good eye. If it goes wrong I will be left with minimal vision. The risk leaflet I was given states "one person in every thousand will go blind in the operated eye as a direct result of the operation". Those sound very scary odds to me, and I don't know if I am ready to take that risk in less than a month from finding a problem.

I didn't mange the appointment very well. I have a major anxiety condition, and having to attend alone (covid rules) left me with little spare focus to ask sensible questions. I'm triggered by medical situations, I panicked and ran and had to be talked down by the nurse. But I also have to recognise that this condition is adding to my level of fear, and means I'd like to avoid the op anyway.

Meanwhile my GP is starting tests to find out why I have this sort of cataract, as I have none of usual causes.

Would you delay it, or just get it over with?

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Aquamarine1029 · 03/03/2021 16:15

Cataract surgery is one of the most common surgeries in the world, and overwhelmingly they are very successfull. My mum just had both of her eyes done and the results have been brilliant. She is very happy she decided to go ahead and get it done. My mum was also told the longer you put it off, the more complicated the surgery becomes, which is true.

Only you can decide, but it certainly won't get better on its own.

ForensicFlossy · 03/03/2021 16:17

My mum just had her first one done and the difference is amazing, she can't wait to have the other one done. She said she didn't feel a thing and it was the easiest procedure ever.

Justcallmebebes · 03/03/2021 16:24

I'm in exactly the same position. Found out last Friday and have diagnostic scan tomorrow.

I felt exactly the same OP. It quite freaked me out at first, but I've done my research, spoken to people who have had it and it's all been good. Not heard of one negative experience so I'm actually looking forward now to getting it done and not having to constantly squint to see properly.

It's one of the most common procedures undertaken thousands of times a day worldwide with a very, very high success rate. Plus it only takes about 15 minutes, you'll be given a relaxant and you can't see the actual procedure whilst it's being done (that was my dread - seeing the laser heading towards my eye ball!!).

Justcallmebebes · 03/03/2021 16:25

I was told it could be genetic (because I am quite young for this op) and my mum had cataracts quite young or a consequence of the steroids I take daily for asthma

Foxyloxy1plus1 · 03/03/2021 16:25

If you don’t have it done, you will get to a point where you won’t be able to see, drive, read or anything else presumably.

HalfShrunkMoreToGo · 03/03/2021 16:28

I have my consultation tomorrow and hoping for a quick date as my vision is deteriorating fast. I've had other surgeries on my eye which mean I've spent lots of time in the surgical waiting area watching people wander in for their cataract surgery then out again 20 minutes later exclaiming about how much better it is already.

It really is a very common and straightforward procedure.

Whatisthisfuckery · 03/03/2021 16:31

The chances of the surgery going wrong are vanishingly small. If you’ve been told that delaying might lead to problems and potential sight loss then you’d be a massive fool to delay. The eye hospital don’t get you in quick for no reason, believe me.

The other thing you can believe me about and hope you never have to find out for yourself, is that losing your eyesight is fucking terrible, life wreckingly bad. Don’t purposely risk it. The doctors know what they’re doing, so let them do it.

The surgery is a piece of piss by the way, I had in 13 years ago. By far the worst part is sitting in the waiting room for hours. It won’t hurt and you’ll get a free sarnie and cupper afterwards. When you take the pad off the next day you’ll be amazed.

carrielou2007 · 03/03/2021 16:35

Another success story here - I only gave sight in my right eye following 5 unsuccessful ops to my left eye. I had (poor -14.5) but useable right in my other eye until a quick changing cataract gave me double vision, unable to drive at night, fall over my own feet etc.

Was terrified but cataract op complete success, able to wear contact lenses again for first time in 5 years.

Unrelated to the op a year later I had further detachment to my R eye (cause of loss to my left) things are very very difficult but I still work, drive locally.

My cataract ops were the easiest ops to recover from, quickest ops and NO PAIN so it’s a ‘yes’ from me Smile

nokidshere · 03/03/2021 16:36

When my MIL had it done she was 93. In and out in less than half an hour and on the way home she was so excited about being able to see/read road signs and other stuff she hadn't seen for so long.

Go for it and good luck

Mountainpika · 03/03/2021 16:36

I'm on the waiting list - had all the checks at the hospital a few weeks ago - could be a wait of a year or more. If you can, go for it. Everyone I've asked has said it makes a huge difference. Good luck!

carrielou2007 · 03/03/2021 16:39

Sorry for typos, as you can tell I can’t see very well Grin meant to add was 39 when I had first ops (left cataract was my third) and 44 when I had it to right - youngest person there!

Mindymomo · 03/03/2021 16:41

I took my FIL to his cataract appointment. I wouldn’t actually call it surgery as such. They use local anaesthetic and the procedure is quick, although they said his vision would get better gradually, he could see so much better straight away. We even went to lunch afterwards.

Chloemol · 03/03/2021 16:43

I had a relatively fast growing cataract in one eye, removed a couple of years ago now and i don’t regret it. I actually didn’t realise how bad it was until it started to affect my driving, I couldn’t drive at night

I have one in the other eye as well, but that doesn’t seem to be growing at all

Get the op, it is a life changer

pelagra · 03/03/2021 16:47

I already know how bad losing your sight is. I grew up living with a blind relative. That is why the 1 in 1000 statistic is so scary. I think only one person has mentioned having surgery when their other eye was already no good.
That is the reason my optician thought they were unlikely to suggest immediate surgery. I don't think there was any real discussion of that issue, beyond writing "ONLY EYE" in bold letters on my notes.

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viques · 03/03/2021 16:48

My dd was diagnosed with fast growing cataracts two years ago. Her first consultant was horrible, said quite nastily “ you shouldn’t have these because you are young, don’t have pre existing conditions and you do realise that operating has a one in ten chance of making it worse.” He told her she have would go to our local hospital, but when we checked there was no way of seeing what the experience and expertise of the surgeons was. I don’t think this would have mattered so much for straightforward cataracts but since she had already been told that hers were unusual it didn’t fill us with confidence. I am afraid we took the cowards way out and went privately to moorfields , where her consultant was very reassuring, very experienced in unusual cataracts, and the whole thing , well both things as she had them in both eyes, turned out really well.

It has made a huge difference to her life, she is back to driving , can see things on her screens, can watch tv, can read. She honestly hadn’t realised just how much she was missing out on until she nearly lost it for ever.

The procedure was unnerving but painless, recovery was quick.

Emeraldshamrock · 03/03/2021 16:49

My Dad could see clearly after 24 hours, go for it.

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