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AIBU?

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To think this makes us totally incompatible?

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WonderingIf38 · 03/03/2021 09:11

In a new relationship since mid December. In lockdown, it's been hard but we're doing ok.

When we met he had been broke up from his ex (was a short relationship) for just a month. We really got on so I put him being single for just a month to the back of my mind and thought it's fine as he said she was blocked and they didn't communicate anymore.

The other day he and I were talking and he mentioned that one day he might unblock her but not message her just to see if she messages him. I was really pissed off and asked why he would even want to do that. He turned it round and said he would never do it while he and I were together but it's still on my mind. I've been hurt in the past and so maybe this is making me overreact but I'm still thinking about it.

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OlympicProcrastinator · 03/03/2021 17:46

In the kindest way OP, you need to learn to love yourself before you love anyone else. You are behaving like a doormat and asking to be walked over. When you keep accepting shit behaviour you are sending out the message that it’s ok. Set the bar higher for yourself. You deserve so much more. Please work on yourself, your boundaries and your self esteem before entering into another relationship and for gods sake, END this, like MN has been advising you on every other thread Flowers

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