There was a man at work i was attracted to years ago... Fast forward to now, both single, or so i thought, we got in touch.
He has spent the last 2 weeks being really full on pursuing me. We met up last week and it was nice. He was grinning so big the whole time, within minutes of leaving he told me he had fallen for me. I truly believe he had a great time.
Today, he called me, in tears. He said he couldn't continue, it was causing him such pain and distress. I was confused, didn't seem like him i know (albeit limitedly) and asked questions...
He eventually said he is seeing someone else. He asked me to wait for him. I'm so confused and shocked. Then later he called me a couple of more times, he says his heart is with me but he's confused
It's probably clear to everyone not to become a backup plan, but wtf, what do i do?