I'm in the involved stage with a man. Not officially together but wanting to be together. I guess we are in the honeymoon stage of meeting.
Weve talked about our pasts with eachother as we've been dating since october. He was honest. He said two years ago he split from his ex. An old school friend (in their 40s) told him she fancied him when they were teenagers. He said to her she was always a good looking women. Cut a long story short they met for sex when he travelled home for the weekend two years ago. It happened again a month later. This women is married with three children. She only told him after they were not seperated.
I don't know how things were left but she supposedly told her husband. She also reported everything they did to his ex girlfriend. He said it was weird that she contacted his ex. She was asking her to look after him.etc.
At christmas she was messaging him saying she loved him so much etc. I remember her real Facebook profile appearing back on his for 2-3 days then he blocked her. Told me she was being weird and still coming onto him. He says he regrets the sex they had. He was just doing it as a rebound after his ex. This women's contacted his ex again recently to ask how he is as he has choosen to not communicate with her.
On valentine's Day she sent him a friend request. He told me and he didn't accept it.
Tonight suddenly she's back on his Facebook. This account was made in 2019. There's no likes on the 5 profile pictures she's used. She's got a fake dob that makes her 24 instead of 47. She's used a weird model from eBay in one picture and the others are screen shots from her Instagram and dog. Seems this profile is purely for him as none of their school friends have her on this account.
I've asked him tonight on the phone if he ever accepted her. He said no I blocked her ages ago. I do briefly remember him saying at Christmas she had added him with a fake picture. So I think he's mentioned this fake account in the past
But I'm absolutely at a loss to why this account has appeared tonight on his page.
Has he accepted her. Has she reopened an account she closed? It's the strangest thing and I'm not really sure how to ask him.
He's told me her first name and I've worked the rest out for myself. But there's 5 women called it on his page as its a commonly used name.
I'm so confused as he's only ever expressed regret. He has always said If he knew she was married he'd have never slept with her. He's always told me she says she loves him and describes it as weird behaviour.
I do not think he's a poor victim in this. He slept with her two years ago. But why is she coming and going in and out of his life. I don't understand if I'm missing something. If he wanted her I presume he would have her. He is technically single. Although very keen on us. This women is married and 2 hours away.
So yeah. She's made a fake profile 2 years ago and he seems to be the only friend on it.