A thought, based on several threads I've seen on here over the past couple of weeks.
The OH and I use an Amex for D2D stuff, and pay it off in full at the end of the month. Know what each other earns, have joint savings, suited and booted etc.
Today, I went to check the Amex balance and it prompted an MFA (multi factor authentication) check, which meant I couldn't see the balance until he authenticated it from his end.
We're cool - I work in IT/infosec - but this would potentially be dangerous in a controlling relationship, no?