I had a bad fall seven weeks ago - hurt my back in 3 places on narrow steps - still in a lot of pain. Was with my adult son who phoned my DH and they managed to get me in the car. When I got home my pants and jeans were soaking wet - DH changed these for me - considerable pain. I asked him to take my bra off - 15 minutes later he was still struggling - I said if we were dating he would have had it off in 2 secs - he said is that still a thing? We have been married more than 30 years by the way but wouldn't consider us old fuddy duddies. It was pitiful to be honest - do young men not try and remove ladies bras any more?