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to be p*ssed of f with my graduation before it's even happened?

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ArmadilloDaMan · 03/11/2007 15:22

Mine is on monday. IT is the second out of three they are having that day. So far, although both me and parents live in the city, it has cost around £100. Tickets were limited to 2 each (so who do I leave out - dad or dp ) and you couldn't say apply for someone elses who wasn't going (Cos then they couldn't collect their certificate).

Tickets were £16 each . Robe hire was also very expensive, and could only get it from one company. A week or so ago got email to say was some spare tickets I could buy, so got another one (another £16). BUt turns out they are numbered and so dp will have to sit by himself on one side of cathedral, while parents on other.

I have to get there to register and sort things out 2 hours before service - service itself lasts 1 hour

COnsidering they are doing about 10 courses at same time and on ours there are around 300 people, can't see it being more than a procession of names being called and being given certificate.

There is a canape and drinks session after - but will end 30mins after service ends

Am so fed up of whole thing now - seems little more than a money making exercise by the university. Bearing in mind this is a former poly and as such, many of the students are not well off by any means. God knows how much it costs if you have to pay travel and hotel expenses as well.

The only reason I am still going is a) we have now paid and b) at least I will see some friends once again.

Is also going to be sad as one of my tutors died suddenly at end of June and his absence is bound to be very noticeable

Nobody else I know has had to pay so much just for tickets (none of them has had to pay for tickets at all)

SO AIBU to think of it as production line money making exercise, rather than celebration of actually passing our degrees

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ArmadilloDaMan · 03/11/2007 15:24

One thing in it's favour - they haven;t actually banned children this year, but if they so much as breathe noisily you will be asked to remove them.

Oh and if you want to take a pushchair you have to have booked it ages ago

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moonmother · 03/11/2007 15:28

I know what you mean...Dp's should have been earlier this year but he couldn't get enough tickets,and didn't want to leave anyone out(his parents are both with new partners) so he made the decision not to attend his.They sent his scroll by post.
He met up with all his tutors earlier and went for a drink with them to say thank you.

I hope yours goes ok and is not too stressful

ArmadilloDaMan · 03/11/2007 15:31

Thanks - obv it could turn out to eb a very nice event after all, but...

Sorry your dp didn't get to go to his.

BEfore we managed to get extra ticket I felt terrible leaving either dad or dp out. IT was horrible (I chickened out and left them to make decision)>

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hanaflower · 03/11/2007 15:51

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ArmadilloDaMan · 03/11/2007 15:53

I would but can only hire it for either the length of the ceremony (and half hour afterwards) or pay 3-4 times as much and have it for a week
Oh that went down well
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ArmadilloDaMan · 03/11/2007 15:54

INteresting to see other former polys doing same.

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Alambil · 03/11/2007 16:26

I just had my ceremony - you don't get given your cert on stage; you just wait as they call out your name, salute the Dean of Uni and shake hands with some other robed big-bod from uni and that's it really - a few speeches to top it off

It is really worth it (well, I think mine was) but there is a lot of pomp and ceremony

Eddas · 03/11/2007 16:33

my brother had his in July and he didn't get his actually certificate just a peice of paper saying well done or something similar

I went through alot to get to the service(multiple trains, finding childminder, etc etc etc) and really it's a bit Had never been to one before but wasn't impressed. My little bro looked lovely in his gown and am glad I went as our mum died and wanted to be there instead of her and especially for my brother.

I hope you really enjoy it since it's been a PITA to organise and costs lots. I think you're right though, a bit of a money making thing.

Eddas · 03/11/2007 16:34

actual not actually

ArmadilloDaMan · 03/11/2007 16:39

Thanks for the replies.

NIce to see you enjoyed yours Lewisfan and sorry about your brother's Eddas.

I think they know most students will go no matter what, cos hey it's graduation. And I think some places take advantage of that.

Have just looked up on web (actual info on grad beyond date and where to buy tickets has been very hard to find - yeah I know now I'm just looking for probs), and Lewisfan you're right we don't even get presented with certificate we have to go and get that later.

HAve no idea how they are going to have speeches when there is going to be many hundreds of students being done in 1 hour.

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hanaflower · 05/11/2007 16:28

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Tommy · 05/11/2007 16:55

I seem to remember mine being incredibly stressful - along similar lines to you armadillodaman and, TBH, I wasn't tha bothered about the whole things anyway - bit of a let down I thought.

ArmadilloDaMan · 06/11/2007 19:55

thanks for messages.

It was alright in the end - nice to see people. Service was short which was nice, and got to chat.

Was no where near as bad as I thought.

Only prob was light (for DVD people) was shining right in my eyes whole way through and between that and the tight mortarboard thing I ended up with a bitch of a migraine.

Ds behaved really well though and it was nice to catch up (and the PhD people had to wear even sillier robes than we did )

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