Where I work currently, it's a very small team and family owned. I have had some issues with management and staff stabbing me in the back. Basically, I thought everything was going ok-ish until I had my probation last month and they ripped shreds out of me and pretty much said they didn't know what I did. Just before Christmas I had a few massive breakdowns. I felt suicidal for about a month. Every point I brought up at the meeting was turned back around on me. I had felt that management wasn't supportive before this and let down by them, but I thought I was doing a decent job at least. I worked my arse off and often worked over my hours most nights. I felt broken at this. Despite this, I did/do really enjoy my job, especially the people I support through it.
About a week after my probation, my managers have done a complete 360 and can't praise me enough. I don't know why. If I bring up anything, they are full of support and if I'm struggling, they put in structures to support me. This was never done before. I really don't know what's changed but I really like having my work praised!
When I had my probation and got my report back (it was dire, really terrible), I applied for other jobs that very day and have been offered one. One that is rewarding, challenging and more money. Lots more money. Except now things are going well at work I'm really in two minds about this new job. The whole having to get to know new colleagues, the challenges of settling down in a new job etc are really getting to me and making me question if this new job is for me. My confidence was shattered at this place and I think it's that that's clouding my judgement. I don't know what to do.