About a year ago my mother found out thru social media that my dad had died. None of his family contacted etc to tell us. None of them have had anything to do with me since I was born. He and my mum were teenagers when I was born and it didn't work out. He made no effort to stay in contact also never paid CSA to my mum. She never pursued things and just got on with it raising me single handedly. He went on to have a wife and 2 kids. I found the obituary today saying loving father to xxx and xxx. And I'm just mad. Like I didn't matter or I wasn't good enough. With regards to a will if there was one .... would they contact me? How do I know? I know this is "grabby" but I actually don't care as he did frig all for me when he was alive 😊