Following the rules

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I've had a heated debate with my dad earlier this evening and it's still playing on my mind...

He wanted to know why I won't let him see my son during half term and take him out for the day, and why I'm being so rigid with all the covid rules.

For context my dad had his first covid jab a few weeks ago (thinks he's invincible now) but he's in a support bubble with my brother and his family inc my nieces (the eldest is at school under keyworker provision and the youngest splits time between a childminder & my dad). Meanwhile my son has been home schooled since Jan with no contact with any family (upsetting but he understands why).

My dad & brother seem to be living their lives normally and don't understand why I don't want to mix. They don't seem to respect my decision and it's really upset me today.

AIBU and taking things too seriously should I lighten up in anticipation of things changing in a few weeks or stick to my guns? Any advice from anyone in the same boat?

My boss, family, clients, neighbours are not following the rules. I don't think anyone cares now OP. Except for stupid old me! I don't think you are being unreasonable atall but so many people don't care anymore. I'm loosing the will for it now myself tbh. My sisters been having school kids and relatives sleep over / family bbqs and all sorts.

I can see why people want to deny it, but I'm a realist and won't mix until risks are reported to have dropped and lockdown ends. Luckily my family and friends mainly feel the same way. It's tough being put on the spot by family and they should respect your decision to follow the rules.