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AIBU?

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AIBU for parking in front of my house

77 replies

CyanSnake · 15/02/2021 10:31

I live on a street that is relatively quiet, but almost impossible to get parking on, due to the fact that none of the houses at my end have drives. I’m a key worker so still working; and I got lucky on Friday night in that there was a space basically outside my gate, so I parked there. The rest of the street was as full of Parked cars as it normally was at this point.

As I got out the car I noticed the sign in the picture attached to a lamppost about three doors down so went to have a look.

Now; this was the only sign on the street and by the look of it I assumed it was homemade and someone was trying to make sure they had parking space on those three days - maybe they had workmen coming to do essential work; maybe an elderly relative who is in their bubble but can’t walk very far?

The point was, I ignored the sign as I wasn’t parked in front of it, but three doors down.

Sunday morning I get a knock at the door and open it to find an irate workman asking if one of the cars was mine (there were about five still parked along the road) and “if it was could [I] move the car and learn to read.

Turns out the sign was an official one from the council, and applied to the whole street as they were resurfacing it...

I was a bit shocked to be shouted at so I just apologised and moved the car.

Afterward tho, I began to feel like I wasn’t being unreasonable to have ignored the sign, and so I emailed by local councillor to raise the fact that the sign was not very official looking; I explained what happened but focused on the fact the there were other cars still parked and that it was likely to be a recurring problem if this is what they used as signage.

This post was prompted when he replied this morning with “There is a sign in your picture telling you not to park - don’t know what you want me to do.”

Sorry for the essay - AIBU?

AIBU for parking in front of my house
OP posts:
GirlInterruptedAgain · 15/02/2021 11:06

If the council carry out official work here they post letter headed notices through the doors and put up signs weeks before. I would contact the council directly and complain. Their sign isn’t anywhere near clear or official enough and they should have advised residents directly also.

TheMobileSiteMadeMeSignup · 15/02/2021 11:10

That's a shit sign. We get a letter. The cones go onto the pavement the day before and suspension of parking signs go up every few yards along the fence/lampposts.

If it was an emergency repair I'd expect a bit more of an apology at the non-notice and a request to move your car.

LakieLady · 15/02/2021 11:14

@MedusasBadHairDay

When they closed the road for resurfacing we had a letter, and multiple signs a couple of weeks before explaining the resurfacing was due and when. They also moved a load of equipment into the road the night before, so it was obvious it was happening.

If have ignored that sign too, it's not clear where in the road it relates to or why.

Same here. And a year or so later, when Virgin dug up the newly resurfaced road to install cable, we all got a letter from the council AND a letter from Virgin, with all the relevant info, including the relevant traffic orders and everything.

In the couple of years following, we had new gas mains and new water mains too, whatever it cost to resurface the road was a complete waste of money.

SilverDragonfly1 · 15/02/2021 11:14

Not U, it looks like someone nicked a sign from some roadworks and used it to try and claim parking space for themselves- like the cones people steal and put out for the same reason. If I saw it, I'd just think 'yeah, right!' and park there.

ApolloandDaphne · 15/02/2021 11:15

That is a terrible sign. When roads were being surfaced near us we got a letter and there were clear signs up in the road for weeks before explaining when the work was being done and any diversions required.

Sapho47 · 15/02/2021 11:17

@CyanSnake

I live on a street that is relatively quiet, but almost impossible to get parking on, due to the fact that none of the houses at my end have drives. I’m a key worker so still working; and I got lucky on Friday night in that there was a space basically outside my gate, so I parked there. The rest of the street was as full of Parked cars as it normally was at this point.

As I got out the car I noticed the sign in the picture attached to a lamppost about three doors down so went to have a look.

Now; this was the only sign on the street and by the look of it I assumed it was homemade and someone was trying to make sure they had parking space on those three days - maybe they had workmen coming to do essential work; maybe an elderly relative who is in their bubble but can’t walk very far?

The point was, I ignored the sign as I wasn’t parked in front of it, but three doors down.

Sunday morning I get a knock at the door and open it to find an irate workman asking if one of the cars was mine (there were about five still parked along the road) and “if it was could [I] move the car and learn to read.

Turns out the sign was an official one from the council, and applied to the whole street as they were resurfacing it...

I was a bit shocked to be shouted at so I just apologised and moved the car.

Afterward tho, I began to feel like I wasn’t being unreasonable to have ignored the sign, and so I emailed by local councillor to raise the fact that the sign was not very official looking; I explained what happened but focused on the fact the there were other cars still parked and that it was likely to be a recurring problem if this is what they used as signage.

This post was prompted when he replied this morning with “There is a sign in your picture telling you not to park - don’t know what you want me to do.”

Sorry for the essay - AIBU?

Iirc if its on a council post in the UK its official or illegal. You can't just use them.

So it was probably worth checking after seeing it, also atm there is covid there may not be a sign for the specific hours they need to hand id probably be happy the roads getting done more than anything.

CuriousaboutSamphire · 15/02/2021 11:20

So it was probably worth checking after seeing it, also atm there is covid there may not be a sign for the specific hours they need to hand id probably be happy the roads getting done more than anything. That's nopt how it works! Really it isn't. If it was then DHs job would be far easier and cheaper!

Same4Walls · 15/02/2021 11:22

So it was probably worth checking after seeing it, also atm there is covid there may not be a sign for the specific hours they need to hand id probably be happy the roads getting done more than anything.

But surely that's not how it works at otherwise why would they ever bother with proper signs detailing the date and times for the works if they could jusy6get away with a bit of duct tape and a sharpie marker?

canigooutyet · 15/02/2021 11:22

We also get noticed that impact my street but other local streets as well, including dates and times. If after hours steps taken to minimise noise and at the moment how they are staying safe cos of CV.

Notice is also attached with cable ties to anything parking related

When the gas mains was leaking we all got a knock on the door for evacuation.

The notice should also be displayed on the council website.

If work has started then you know it was legit.

Pinkmarsh · 15/02/2021 11:24

What @Changechangychange said!

stackemhigh · 15/02/2021 11:26

YANBU. Temporary parking restrictions are usually much more professional.

The dealings I've had with our local council have been terrible, they seem to have a real superiority complex.

What are they paid for if they can't even ensure adequate signage is in place?!

BrightYellowDaffodil · 15/02/2021 11:28

In no way does that look like an official sign and your local councillor is an arse.

When the local council wanted to resurface our road they sent letters to every household, there were warning notices on the lamp-posts weeks before and, then about 5 days before the works were due to start, there were 'Parking Suspension' signs all the way along the road saying when and where the parking would be suspended.

That thing looks like an irate neighbour fancies keeping their parking to themselves (and not unlike the muppets near me who keep putting up '20mph - skid risk' signs because they don't like living on a 40mph main road).

One for the local paper? Get practising your sad face, they love a parking dispute Grin Or ask your councillor for details on the laws (national or local by-laws) on parking suspensions...

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 15/02/2021 11:29

Not all councils are organised and professional, mine certainly isn't. A couple of years ago I saw signs going up in the next road at 4.30pm saying no parking as they were resurfacing the road the following day! When I walked past there were some irate workmen knocking on doors moaning at people who'd parked before the signs went up!

BlackeyedSusan · 15/02/2021 11:31

More notice than we got. Tried to get home and found them resurfacing. Due to the one way system it took 5 minutes to drive round to the other end of the roadworks 100yards away and I just got into the flats before they resurfaced. Once in there was no way out again.

But no, you are not being unreasonable to expect proper notice.

Hankunamatata · 15/02/2021 11:32

It would have been more helpful to up a sign about the resurfacing

saraclara · 15/02/2021 11:38

I'm clearly in the minority, but I've certainly seen signs like that, and I would have taken notice of it (or more likely, parked if everyone else had, but then checked it when I got in the house).

Having said that, I'd not dwell on the grumpy workman. It must be really frustrating for them, and not his fault that the sign wasn't great and no other warning had been given.
And I'd contact the council (not the councillor, but the actual council offices) to ask why you hadn't been given notice. As many people aren't leaving their homes at all at the moment, people could have been parked up for days and have no idea the sign ahd been put up.

HopeHappy · 15/02/2021 11:39

Have a look at roadworks.org and see if the works are listed there. It will give you the name of the authority the work is approved by and links back to their website. I'd then send a complaint to the relevant highways team and copy in your (useless) councillor, pointing out the facts:

  • the signage used was unprofessional and not signwritten in any way to make it appear official
  • the signage wasn't adequate for the whole street to be aware of the works (as was evidenced by the fact that a number of other cars were still parked too)

YANBU OP - I too would have ignored that sign and just decided that someone was cheekily attempting to save the space outside their own house.

Ikora · 15/02/2021 11:43

I’m a stickler for being obedient but when we had works on our road we received a letter and that sign just looks like someone has put one up. Even I would have ignored that sign.

Same4Walls · 15/02/2021 11:45

I'm clearly in the minority, but I've certainly seen signs like that, and I would have taken notice of it

That actually really surpises me. I can't get my head around anyone at the council thinking this would be taken notice of. I've honestly seen more convincing looking signs created by and put up by disgruntled neighbours.

Hadalifeonce · 15/02/2021 11:56

I also think they are supposed to have s reference number and contact telephone numbers

I probably wouldn't have moved my car with that bloke at my door, until I had spoken with someone at the council.

canigooutyet · 15/02/2021 12:04

The response to the sign I would post on FB or Twitter with a picture of the sign and have a laugh at what constitutes professional

BLToutanowhere · 15/02/2021 12:08

On your side OP. We've had multiple major road and pavement works nearby for some time. Letters were sent and "proper" looking signs (this road/footway will be closed from DATE for example) were put up.

That looks like a neighbour has made it to save their precious little legs.

AaronPurr · 15/02/2021 12:10

I've honestly seen more convincing looking signs created by and put up by disgruntled neighbours.

Same.

YANBU at all OP, like many others have said there should have been much more warning than a dodgy handmade sign. The councillor's response is rude and doesn't actually address the point you made. No surprises there

LondonStone · 15/02/2021 12:15

Definitely NBU!

I would have ignored it as well but I used to live on a terraced road where parking wars were ferocious and I ignored everyone’s ‘no parking!’ signs. 🤷🏻‍♀️ A woman on my street used to leave passive aggressive notes in fake parking fine envelopes.

Absolutely bonkers.

canigooutyet · 15/02/2021 12:18

And which weekend?
This one? Every weekend for the next 20 years?

Hardly cost effective. That stuff is a bitch to get off, so chances are signs will now need replacing.

Only times I have seen similar is when people think they own the street, and want to park outside their own place. Soon get rumbled when there's nothing official online.

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