My neighbour expects me to take him shopping all the time. To be fair he does put a small amount of money towards the petrol, but what is irking me is taking him to a few supermarkets that I don't use but I have to wait at least half an hour in the car while he toodles around doing his shopping. After he's finished in the supermarket he'll often say can we just stop at such and such shop and I have to wait for him all over again. It feels like I'm wasting half of my life waiting for him to finish his shopping! He has no regard for my car and slams the doors really hard, he's left the door and windows open overnight when we've come back and I haven't checked all round the car. Once he managed to kick my hat out of the glove compartment and on to the street with his big feet. I managed to retrieve my lovely hat the next day from a puddle at the side of the road! He now tells me what day he expects me to go shopping! To be honest it's doing my head in, I prefer to drive alone and he does distract me and also patronises me with a well done when I park. The area is well served with buses and there is a T Express within walking distance. He also boasts that he can afford a car but chooses not to have one! Any ideas on how I can put it nicely but firmly that I don't want to drive him any more? Thanks for reading.