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5 year old boy always playing out alone

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starsparkle08 · 12/02/2021 17:21

There is a little boy down the close I live in . He’s a lovely little boy aged 5 . He’s always playing out alone , never watched by his mum ( who is a single parent )
He plays on his scooter with ramps etc in the road, I’m always extra careful looking out for him ( when in car ) as he’s always all over the place . Plus I’ve had to tell him a number of times to be careful and move him away from vehicles entering the close .
He also was playing with a pen knife the one day which I thought was awful . I’ve not seen him with that again since thankfully .
He was also sat on a chair in the road ( entrance to close ) I had to encourage him to move somewhere safe .
When I leave the close with my son he tries to follow for a bit and I have to remind him to stay close to his home .

Should I do something or not , it’s been playing on my mind a while now .
I think his mum also has a baby which is maybe why she doesn’t come out to watch him . They do have a garden though he could play in .

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JackieBeaver · 12/02/2021 19:35

@starsparkle08

I feel guilty for not reporting it and will do so . I can’t leave my son unsupervised for a second and he is aged 9 ( lots of disabilities though ) Just out of interest what is the typical age a child can play out unsupervised ( one without disabilities such as my sons )
Personally I would say 9 up wards if out front and depending on the child. I wouldn't let my 7 year out on the drive yet as you just never know what they're going to do
netstaller · 12/02/2021 19:40

You need to report to social services for his welfare. If he gets run over or taken/abused by someone who notices he's left alone you'd never be able to forgive yourself. Please intervene for his welfare.

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starsparkle08 · 12/02/2021 20:11

@lifestooshort123 that’s your opinion your entitled to it . I know what’s happening where I live which is what matters and I have had adequate advice now from other people on here

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Quirrelsotherface · 12/02/2021 20:16

Please, please report to social services at the earliest opportunity. Anything could happen to him, poor poor little boy. I wouldn't let my 9 yo play out on his own like that.

SuperCaliFragalistic · 12/02/2021 20:29

I know a few pretty young kids who play out occaisionally alone or sometimes with other children. Not something my 5 year old does but not uncommon.

Badgerstmary · 12/02/2021 20:34

Please report it to police, school or social services. Imagine how you would feel if you didn’t report it & something happened to him? Hopefully he will be fine but to me it isn’t a risk worth taking. Your neighbour won’t know it was you.

bloodyhairy · 12/02/2021 21:44

Definitely raise this with the school. If they already have concerns then your info will help make up the jigsaw.

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