I want to know A if I am the only one who feels like this and B am I unreasonable to feel the way I do?
I work in a challenging environment and I am often asked to ‘trouble shoot’ however at home and in my private life I am often upset with hurt feelings. Lockdown has made me dwell on things.
These ‘things’ that I dwell on tend to be related to extended family being exclusive e.g. I posted on here about my sibling not inviting spouses to his wedding so he could have the nice wedding they wanted.
Another sibling’s partner never showing interest in us.
My partner’s sibling also did something weird with his wedding as well.
They are all without exception lovely, funny and generous. My siblings and I do nothing but laugh when we’re together and I miss them at this time.
When we host something siblings will come, their spouses often come as well but not always.
What I think has triggered the latest feelings is my sibling has sold a house and moving to his dream house.... absolutely nothing to do with me but there was no mention of this in any conversations. My parents’ generation was different; in-laws were close.
I am crazy aren’t I?