I know I should probably just leave but it’s often useful.
There’s a planning application for some industrial units which will directly negatively impact our whole estate (they want 24hr HGV access metres from our houses). Absolutely I agree that as many of us as possible should be objecting to the proposal.
But one or two neighbours have started posting lists of house numbers that haven’t objected. And then you get a flurry of ‘ooh I’ll speak to 17’, ‘I’ll see if 9 has done it yet’ that kind of thing.
I was on the first list a few days ago and it actually sent me into a bit of a panic. I’m utterly overwhelmed at the moment with homeschooling, studying, 100% responsibility with housework as DH is wfh and I’m furloughed. My mental health is crumbling and this just felt like one more burden to shoulder.
Anyway I did get round to filling out the form a few days ago.
The same neighbour posted an updated list last night and I lost my rag a bit. I was polite but I wrote quite a lengthy message saying that this was bang out of order, that he has no idea what is going on in peoples lives, people will either do it or not in their own time and that it’s admirable to want to galvanise the community but this feels like bullying.
I had a few supportive PMs from other neighbours but I’ve woken up in a cold sweat this morning about it. I might have marked myself as a troublemaker for ever 
WIBU? Or overreacting to a neighbour trying to get something done?