I have a friend,i have known for some time now, i just put my finger on it, why she confuses me so much.
For e.g amongst many examples
I used to before lockdowns started happening, vist a local community centre place,one of the the regular activities held there,I used to enjoy doing,
the community centre were giving away particular items away,so I had a couple of these popular items,to give to a couple of friends as gifts,as i know both my friends are really into this kind of popular hobby,
so i did just that,one of my friend appreciated this,(but my other friend sort of appreciated the gift,but she said to me,that she prefer, wished she had our mutual friend gift instead as she liked the colour a lot better,(does not like the colour gift i gave her.
(It was exactly same kind of gifts for mural friend aswell.
Another example my friend ,a former school friend of mine sadly died a couple of years ago,and my friend said I wonder why she died?was it cause she was doing drugs?
(My school friend moved away a long time ago from the area I live with my friend, and my friend does not know my school friend,(never met her.
(so why on earth did my friend come out with a random insensitive comment such as this?
just cause she was not old dying,i am in my late 4oyrs age.
Another example my friend mentioned a friend of hers wanted to give up her partime job,and my friend asked if I was interested in taking up this job,as it was similar kind of job I was doing already at that time.
(My friend asked me if I was interested in this job?and she said if I was intetested?
My friend said she would have to tell the woman,whom her friend worked for.
My friend said she would first have to tell her my cultural ethnicity,before she took me on.
(I wasn't interested in this job,as I was fed up with the job already had,and fancied a change of job to do.
Another example my friend mentioned why are you not interested in this job,?is it cause they have to check your/people job references then?
What a weird questions to ask/say isn't it !
My friend is one of those types of people, who is ultra sensitive but when it comes to other people,she often puts her foot in it,is outspoken,tells it as it is !
(But people and friends of hers have to walk on egg shells with her.
She gets worked up,very sensitive about almost anything a lot of things.
Another example my friend has aoften ongoing issues with people she works with/and for,to such a extant that she has had discipliary actions against.
Her job,career is extremely responsible role,it has to be as society depends on this.
Another example when we were amongst a small group of friends at at a large Prestige community event,
(local councillors,and local MPs present etc,my friend had one of her outbursts whilst we were talking about a very well known infamous famous person from uk,who has notorious reputation, my friend mentioned her ex Partner ,with whom she had had a very messy,very bad break up.
My friend compared her ex,to this infamous person and said her ex partner should not work with very venerable members of the community too.
Another example is whilst we were waiting at a queue, at a store in our town,someone annoying to her queue jumped before her,
Obviously she was naturally bit pissed off,(but my friend saw this queue jumper person whilst walking around this store, and my friend walked past her and pretended to have a fake coughing fit (as she told me later it was too get back at her, and she knew this would obviously be a very effective way to annoy the queue jumper with the current Covid times we are living at.
Has anybody else had a quiky(unausaul friend as this?
she is very Lucky Nobody at work knows about this side of her personality,what she did.
As she would be having her P45 form in the Post,her line of work,her action at that store,but be far too Controversial thing to do,
My friend can be a loose canon at times
I can not say her line of work as it be far too outing on here.!
And she would really be in the shit with her reputation job/career wise !
She has enough of problematic issues going on already at work.