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To refuse to look after her pets?

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sandyso · 06/02/2021 08:00

We're still in lockdown and my auntie called me yesterday to ask if I would look after her pets this weekend.

I stupidly said yes but then realized I shouldn't.

She shouldn't be staying overnight anywhere should she? Or have I got the rules wrong?

Also am I actually allowed in her house whilst she's gone?

I can call her this morning to cancel unless this sort of thing is allowed?

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Finfintytint · 06/02/2021 08:04

Well, she might have legitimate reasons. Work? Caring role?

sandyso · 06/02/2021 08:09

I'm pretty sure those are not the reasons. Of course I may be wrong.

So I am allowed in her house then?

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bonzo77 · 06/02/2021 08:10

I believe animal care is explicitly permitted. Can’t vouch for her plans being so though.

WishingHopingThinkingPraying · 06/02/2021 08:11

Look, I think you need to make your own decision here. If it's completely safe for you then I think that's what you should decide based on. It's not really for you to police her.

ArcherDog · 06/02/2021 08:11

Animal welfare is an exemption for most of the rules so yes you can but if it’s because she’s off on a jolly then that’s taking the piss.

sandyso · 06/02/2021 08:15

I'm not trying to police her, I just want to know if I'm breaking any of the rules.
I don't want her neighbors reporting her or me if I'm seen going in and out of her house.

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funnylittlefloozie · 06/02/2021 08:20

Animal care is allowed. I can go and look after someone's pets if they are hospitalised, for example. The only person who might be doing wrong is your auntie, but that's her problem, not yours.

Beautiful3 · 06/02/2021 08:28

Yes its fine.

Pollypudding · 06/02/2021 08:30

There are some reasons you can travel which could include and overnight stay such as a funeral, compassionate visit, work. Also you are allowed to care for animals.

Kay00 · 06/02/2021 08:30

Im feeding my neighbours cat whilst she stays with her daughter (elderly neighbour has fallen and broken her wrist). I don't care if it in or out of the rules, that cat needs feeding!

LawnFever · 06/02/2021 08:31

I’d be asking where she’s going and why but I don’t think it’s the end of the world to pop into an empty house & feed a cat, or whatever animal- although if it’s a dog it shouldn’t be left overnight alone anyway.

EveryDayIsADuvetDay · 06/02/2021 08:31

If your close enough for her to ask you, it's hardly unreasonable th have a chat and ask where she's off to?

Regardless of why she is away, it isn't her pets' fault.
Animal care is a valid reason for you to go
If your Aunt is not there risks are minimal (and presumably no one else is)
Sanitise your hands when you arrive and as you leave
Make a fuss on the animals - it's not their fault and they'll be lonely.

When I was ill, my biggest worry was who would look after my cat if I was taken into hospital.

Porridgeoat · 06/02/2021 08:32

You’re allowed to look after animals

sunflowersandbuttercups · 06/02/2021 08:34

She could be working or going to see someone in her bubble. Caring responsibilities are another reason to go into someone else's home.

But you're allowed to go and provide animal care. Dog walkers and pet sitters are open as normal for a reason - because animal care/welfare is an essential service.

sandyso · 06/02/2021 08:46

Thanks everyone

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