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To ask you to tell me about the '80s?

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Trulyatraditionalman · 05/02/2021 20:04

I was born in Dec '89. I absolutely love '80s music, and the way it is depicted in films and TV makes it seem like it was the most amazing decade.

I'd like to experience the '80s through your memories

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ShiteheadRevisited · 05/02/2021 20:53

White dog shit. Loads of it - haven't seen any since about 1992!

LApprentiSorcier · 05/02/2021 20:54

The banned Gerry adams from speaking on the telly and an actor spoke his words - which was odd.

Yes - it drew far more attention to him than it would have done if they'd just shown him speaking normally.

Bomb threats were a big thing in England in the 80s. I remember all the bins disappearing from railway stations after there'd been incidents of bombs being put in them.

BonnieDundee · 05/02/2021 20:54

The threat from the Cold War.was a big thing. I used to dream about Russian soldiers invading my very small in the arse end of nowhere town Grin

MumofSpud · 05/02/2021 20:54

I told my students this today: back at Primary School (early v 80s) as a 'punishment' we would have to sit next to 'smelly Matthew' (thus from the teachersShockI sometimes wonder what happened to him. But on a lighter note the music / the 'newness' of everything!

Sparklingbrook · 05/02/2021 20:55

Music started getting crap (Stock Aiken and Waterman)

Catchy though. Grin I Ionged to be in Bananarama. Grin And Kylie did ok out of it.

Adamandtheaunts · 05/02/2021 20:57

My overriding memory of the eighties is that it was cold. Single glazing, no central heating. An electric heater in the bathroom that we were never allowed to use because it was too expensive. We were fancy and had a gas fire where my aunty had a coal one. Cold days = everyone in the one room with the fire on and the door shut to keep the heat in. Getting dressed under the duvet after a bath because it was bloody freezing! A miserable decade, glad it was ages ago now.

LApprentiSorcier · 05/02/2021 20:58

There was a big craze for bubblegum in the early 80s - everyone blowing huge pink bubbles everywhere. And if you think chewing gum is bad for being stuck everywhere, you'd hate the pink splats that were the fallout from bubblegum. 'Hubba Bubba' was a popular brand.

MissConductUS · 05/02/2021 20:59

I was just out of uni in the 80's. Single, had my own place for the first time, it was glorious. Lots of partying and fun, but also as PP have pointed out, lots of sexual harassment on the job. Life just seemed simpler then.

IncorrigibleTitmouse · 05/02/2021 20:59

I was a kid in the 80s, my best memories would include:

All sitting together to watch the TV--especially Tomorrow's World and The Krypton Factor. Kids programmes were only on for a couple of hours though my favourites were Pinny's House, Trumpton, Fingermouse and Knightmare.

Having my hair crimped and put up in a great high side ponytail on the top of my head and wearing a ra-ra skirt or a puffball dress! Not to mention Clark's magic steps shoes (v important!)

My Mum was a big 'muso' (as they were known then!) so always having Blondie, The Clash, The Cure, Dexy's, David Bowie etc. on in the house. Music I still listen to to this day.

Going to the shop to get Smash Hits and a 10p mix that actually contained 10 sweets.

Less good things:

Smoking everywhere. My Mum had an ashtray on her desk at work, but the worst was people smoking at the back of planes, as if that made a blind bit of difference!

No seatbelts in older cars but the advent of those terrifying road safety adverts. I'm also still a bit scarred by having to watch a really scary public service type video at school about not playing in sub-stations...

I was aware of the news from an unusually young age, so I was very conscious of unemployment, the nuclear threat and the IRA. I worried a lot about those kinds of things, and I hated the music that went with those really scary Crimestoppers adverts!

Bullying was definitely worse, and no one did a damn thing about it. You were just told it was 'character building'.

Sparklingbrook · 05/02/2021 20:59

The films. The Brat Pack consisting of Emilio Estevez, Anthony Michael Hall, Rob Lowe, Andrew McCarthy, Demi Moore, Judd Nelson, Molly Ringwald, and Ally Sheedy.

80s films I loved as a teen and still love-

St Elmo's Fire
About Last Night
Pretty in Pink
Ferris Bueller's Day Off
Breakfast Club

Dirty Dancing and Top Gun-meh.

Cheermonger · 05/02/2021 21:00

I was 19 in 1984 and it was the best time. I had a good job, a car and freedom. I’d moved into my flat and so had a few of my friends. The music was just insane, the nightclubs bloody brilliant and living in a seaside resort we had an ever changing glut of talent. I had a bloody ball, seemed to spend half of my life in fancy dress, the other behind a desk, headphones in listening to Human League

NeverDropYourMoonCup · 05/02/2021 21:01

Stereos were incredibly expensive (and massive - and the sound quality was shit). Whilst an LP cost about £5.49, CDs were three times the price.

Clothes were comparatively more expensive.

Being groped by teenage boys? Well, boys will be boys and you do know it's possible to see your bra strap through your school shirt, don't you?

The worst rumour that could go around school was that somebody was gay. Because they were responsible, according to the papers, for every death. Anybody famous who was privately gay was hastily married off. Huge fuss when an actor died of AIDS and had kissed an actress on screen - it was all about how she might die/he was evil for putting her in danger and not going into seclusion until he died.

Although schools were opening up subjects, the idea of a girl doing graphics, woodwork, metalwork or computer studies instead of child development and home economics was shocking; if a boy chose HE instead of woodwork, there was a lot of pressure not to 'be gay'.

A lot of girls were still intending to mark time in a little job until they got married.

Most of the music that was actually around was pretty shit.

Girls couldn't get access to contraception or terminations particularly easily.

Children who were abused and raped by older men were portrayed as little temptresses who knew exactly what they were doing under the moniker of 'Wild Child' or 'Groupie' (the latter hadn't changed from the 60s and 70s, really).

15/16 year old girls' photos were on the second page in of most tabloids. Once they (sorry for the phrase) 'became legal', they'd be topless.

People were still losing their shit over Life of Brian and blasphemy. Every week it seemed that there was a new outrage. But absolutely fuck all about exploiting girls as sexual commodities.

If you weren't well off, you were scum. And there were a lot of people who weren't well off. Thatcherism changed the narrative from 'some people need help' to 'they deserve it because they're lazy'.

Fighting in schools was something that might get you a telling off, but most of the time, as long as it didn't happen in lessons and particularly if the other person had been instigating it/deliberately winding somebody up/being racist (and God, there was a lot of that), it was largely looked upon as a normal part of school life.

There was campaigning against nuclear weapons and the famous Greenham Common camp was in the news frequently.

But the racism was on another level to now. National Front graffiti over the place. Walking to school with a friend who was BAME would get you at best screamed at from a van - if you were a girl walking with a boy of another ethnicity, though, you were both in danger a lot of the time. Even if you were 11 years old. Hearing P Lover, NLover was guaranteed every single time.

Going to football matches was a dangerous business. And not just because of the fans; the grounds themselves were dangerous.

Gardens didn't tend to have high wooden fences, so you'd frequently get neighbours' dogs, cats, children and the occasional police chase going through the back garden.

But, you had a chance at getting a job if you took the time to walk around - there would be posters up saying they were hiring and you could often start a job the next day. You'd get paid next to fuck all, but there was none of the waiting three months for references, more references, a detailed work history for the last 20 years including every single day of that time, unfortunately, no DBS type clearances, and there was a lot more work for people without qualifications, particularly boys who could get a decent apprenticeship and trade behind them.

If you were financially OK, it was probably quite a good time. But if you were poor or not white (or Catholic - there was a fuckton of anti Catholic attitude due to the Troubles), it was pretty shit in all.

BumbleBeegu · 05/02/2021 21:01

I can vividly remember the day that the Falklands conflict started, and me asking my dad if we were 'at war'...I was terrified! It was such an awful time...the news reports showing the Royal Navy ships leaving, with all those really young men on board...so many of whom never returned...so sad 😞

InTheShadowOfTheMushroomCloud · 05/02/2021 21:02

I spent most of the 1980s enjoying myself in a drug fuelled haze... I don't remember much! I had DD1 in 1987 and I then grew up.....

InTheShadowOfTheMushroomCloud · 05/02/2021 21:03

I was born in the 1960s.....

BumbleBeegu · 05/02/2021 21:03

Also Marillion and 'Kayleigh' 🥰

wellthatsunusual · 05/02/2021 21:03

@LApprentiSorcier

The banned Gerry adams from speaking on the telly and an actor spoke his words - which was odd.

Yes - it drew far more attention to him than it would have done if they'd just shown him speaking normally.

Bomb threats were a big thing in England in the 80s. I remember all the bins disappearing from railway stations after there'd been incidents of bombs being put in them.

This is astounding news to me. Growing up in N Ireland they never removed our bins when people put bombs in them!

Actually that reminds me of the bins of the 1980s. Yellow, rectangular and at shoulder height, attached to a lamppost. There was a 'Keep Britain Tidy' campaign and I think the bins might have had the logo on them? Which with hindsight is weird because I didn't live in Britain!

Cocomarine · 05/02/2021 21:04

80s teen. Seaside town that basically closed up in winter. Economically depressed. Shitty run down premises, boarded up or smashed windows. No jobs.

I had a great childhood, but but the backdrop was pretty grim.

tobee · 05/02/2021 21:04

I was 12 in 1980 so to me it was all about being a teenager and the stresses that that brings; growing up, discovering freedom and boys, parties etc but with the restrictions of school work. So same for most people in any decade.

But it was full on Thatcherism with the Falklands War giving the government a huge boost. People making huge amounts of money in the city. But lots of deprivation for many more others. There was an establishment attitude that if you were unemployed or lived in an area where the local industry then it was your fault. Single mothers (we also had large numbers of teen pregnancies) were also looked down on. There was a great deal of hypocrisy from the government.

At school, a state school in a not deprived area, sharing ancient textbooks between 3 of us was the norm. The Thatcher government seemed to hate the young.

The music and fashion was ott New Romantic with big hair and make up for all.The music was very synthesiser based.

It was also still full of sexism leftover from another age.

Nuclear war seemed a real possibility; especially with Reagan in the White House. Lots of reds under the bed propaganda. And a terrible situation in Northern Ireland.

ImsorryWilson · 05/02/2021 21:04

.......” dancing in stilettos in the snow.......”

Cocomarine · 05/02/2021 21:04

Oh god yes, never being able to find a bloody bin!!!

LApprentiSorcier · 05/02/2021 21:05

The worst rumour that could go around school was that somebody was gay

Yes - the blatant and open homophobia in schools was shocking. Any term associated with being gay was used as an insult and flung around without a thought.

Sparklingbrook · 05/02/2021 21:05

There's some great reaction videos on You Tube of younger people supposedly watching 80s music videos for the first time.

The look of shock when Phil Collins climbs those stairs and hits the drums in 'In the Air Tonight'.

One 'reactioner' decided that the lyrics/video of 'Don't You Want Me' by the Human League meant Phil Oakey was going to kill the girl and then himself. Shock

IIRC the lyrics of a song weren't that important back then as long as it was a good tune.

Beebumble2 · 05/02/2021 21:05

Busy having my children in the 80s. But houses were cheap, we bought a 4 bed wreck in inner London for £40,000. Did it up and sold it 5 years later to move out of the city. Not a good financial move but great for the family.

BraxtonChic · 05/02/2021 21:05

We got our first colour tv in 1980.

In the first part of the decade, legwarmers and sweatshirts. Lycra. Ra Ra skirts. The Kids from Fame. I did a lot of dancing, I was obsessed.

Playing Donkey Kong and Space Invaders. The first personal computers, my Dad had one for work, quite unusual. My first Walkman. Saying the number when you answered the phone.

Smash Hits and Just 17 magazines.

When VHS came out I used to lie in front of the TV to tape my favourite songs off Top of the Pops.

Ditto taping off the radio. Wish I still had some of my best mixtapes.

Vinyl, the smell of a new LP, freshly pressed, that you had saved and queued up for.

Smoky pubs. Juke boxes. Eyeliner. Pernod and black. Smoke machines. CND. Ban the Bomb marches. Rummaging for quirky clothes and jewellery in charity shops.

The advent of Channel 4, the Tube, Brookside.

Setting off for Uni in a far more glamorous location than my home town. Friday night cinema club, double bill. The Poll tax protests. Living in a grungy, damp student house and getting pneumonia.

Oh to go back just for a bit, although I'd skip the pneumonia!

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