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To think that you’re evening meal is called ‘tea’ not ‘dinner’?!

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Biscoffaddict · 04/02/2021 16:33

I see so many posters on here referring to their evening mea, as ‘dinner’, but in real life I’ve never met anyone who does this and it’s always ‘tea’. It always has been tea. My parents call it tea, my grandparents called it tea, my friends call it tea, my work colleagues call it tea etc. ‘Dinner’ is the meal you have in the middle of the day and that’s why school dinner ladies, are called dinner ladies!

I don’t know but I find it quite irrationally annoying! Surely I’m not alone?!

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HurricaneBitch · 04/02/2021 18:01

@WagnerTheWehrWolf 😄 I agree and it's my first language! Lol

Glitterblue · 04/02/2021 18:01

@DrCoconut

To me dinner is a hot/main meal. So you could have breakfast dinner tea. Or breakfast lunch dinner. Supper is a bowl of cereal or some toast before bed and was virtually compulsory during my childhood. Is that regional too? My southern ex had never heard of supper in this context.
Same here.
Dogsandbabies · 04/02/2021 18:02

I have lunch and dinner and everyone I know calls them that too.

Inastatus · 04/02/2021 18:03

@FrankskinnerscRoc

I use both, but never use the L word & want to kill those that do 😡
Blimey 😂
ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 04/02/2021 18:03

Lunch reminds me of Luncheon Meat🤮

I never say the word.

SittinOnTheDockOfTheBay · 04/02/2021 18:03

@PicsInRed

That title has everything.

This must be a wind up? 🤣

I came on here to say the same thing.
BeyondMyWits · 04/02/2021 18:03

For us the main hot meal of the day is dinner. Lunch or tea usually sandwiches.

HopingForOurRainbowBaby · 04/02/2021 18:04

Where I come from its tea but my OH who's from the North East calls it dinner

horrayforharoldlloyd · 04/02/2021 18:04

Breakfast, brunch, lunch, afternoon tea, dinner, supper. Afternoon and supper are snacks

MissMarpleDarling · 04/02/2021 18:04

No one calls it tea.we only have tea at xmas. Way after dinner you have picky bits tea.

NoWordForFluffy · 04/02/2021 18:05

@FrankskinnerscRoc

I use both, but never use the L word & want to kill those that do 😡
Bit of an overreaction!
joystir59 · 04/02/2021 18:05

Your not you're!!! Don't care what you call your tea!!!

babyyodaxmas · 04/02/2021 18:05

Only children under 12 (and possibly geriatrics) have tea (like sandwiches or soft boiled egg with soliders) as their evening meal having had a hot meal at lunch time. The rest of us are out of the house from 7-6. So couldn't be home for tea time have breakfast, lunch and dinner (or supper) at supper time.

Imissmoominmama · 04/02/2021 18:06

It’s very much a regional thing, and people who feel superior because they use one, or the other, are daft.

Owlish · 04/02/2021 18:07

@ringydinghy

Tea is a drink. Dinner is a meal. I don't understand why northeners always call it "tea"

Tea is also a meal in some parts of the country. Just because you only know it as a drink, doesn't make you correct Hmm

Ladywinesalot · 04/02/2021 18:07

Depends where you live.
Midlands and North tend to say Tea.

South, Dinner.

You post sounds incredibly ignorant...

Rubyupbeat · 04/02/2021 18:07

No one cares, this type of thread subject has been on here so many BORING times.

SittinOnTheDockOfTheBay · 04/02/2021 18:07

@Biscoffaddict

I don't think it's unreasonable to call your evening meal dinner, tea or even supper, as it differs depending on region and / or class. What I think is unreasonable is that you don't understand this and think everyone should use the same language as you and the actors on Coronation St.

GintyMcGinty · 04/02/2021 18:07

Amazingly there is more than one dialect in this country.

I use both dinner and tea.

joystir59 · 04/02/2021 18:07

"Picky bits" are going straight in Room 101. I'm WC. I eat breakfast lunch and dinner. But I usually eat dinner at teatime!

Mousehole10 · 04/02/2021 18:08

Tea is at tea time, 4 or 5pm. Dinner is at dinner time, 6pm onwards.

Lunch is at lunchtime, middayish.

ChristOnAPeloton · 04/02/2021 18:08

[quote ofwarren]@christonapeloton
Cooked or uncooked, the midday meal is dinner here [/quote]
Thanks for answering!

(Even if it does sound bonkers to me Grin )

VodselForDinner · 04/02/2021 18:08

I find it quite irrationally annoying

That’s ok. I find people who don’t know the difference between “your” and “you’re” rationally annoying.

Skade · 04/02/2021 18:08

@HowQuicklyTwoAndTwenty890

In my household it is breakfast, second breakfast, morning tea, elevenses, lunch, afternoon tea, dinner, supper, snack, bedtime cookies.

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You forgot about breakfast pudding Wink
whattimeisitmrswolf · 04/02/2021 18:08

I call meals lunch and dinner, DH dinner and tea. Poor DC don't know what meal we're referring to most of the time Wink

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