some q's re: parenting

[Sally202021]

Hi,

I'm just wondering if other people experience these situation with their children-

1. Their child not wanting to come home after nursery?
2. Feeling really angry and shouting at your children? How do you feel after this? How often does this happen with you?
3. Do your children sometimes not come to you to talk about things if they've had a fight with their sibling?

Many Thanks for answers in advance :)

Why do you want to know? They're very strange questions with no context

1. Doesn't happen - we decide plans in advance together so she is looking forward to coming home
2. Shouting is banned in our house (both of us) and we tell each other off if we lose our rag
3. She's my only one so N/A

1. Yes that used to happen. They loved grandma picking them up but always disappointed when it was me!
2. We try not to shout.
3. My dc fight, that's happens with siblings. What do you want them to say to you?

1. Often, I have 3 and I'd have to peel them off me, but 2 of them would never want to leave!
2. everyone shouts at their children. You need to make sure you are adhering to the 5 positive comments:1 negative ratio
3. They never do that - you have to ask/intervene depending on age.

Actually 2 is not true - effective parents occasionally shout at their children.

1. Their child not wanting to come home after nursery?

This sometimes happens if he's in the middle of playing with someone. We just try to distract.!

1. Feeling really angry and shouting at your children? How do you feel after this? How often does this happen with you?

Not often, I try not to shout but it sometimes happens. I do feel bad for shouting but if I have shouted they've been naughty.

1. Do your children sometimes not come to you to talk about things if they've had a fight with their sibling?

Mine are young (6 and 3) so tell me.