Dp and I had a huge row last night over something that happened years ago. I bought a secondhand laptop last week which he collected for me and paid £150 for it in cash. I then transferred the money over to him.
Last night he "jokingly" said that he had sold it on to a friend who paid £170 for it. When I didnt find it funny he said I was being daft for believing it.
But the thing is a few years ago when I first moved in I had my tv in the bedroom which was a 3 year old 37 inch. I had said to him previously that I felt that most of the things in the house were his and I would feel more at home having some of my own things around me. I came back from work one day and he had given it away to his daughter and replaced it with a slightly bigger tv given to him by an acquaintance. He said he was doing me a favour as the tv was a better make and bigger. But it wasnt my tv and it had an unknown history whereas I had got mine from new. The remote didnt work and it took him months to source a new one for it and then after a few weeks he gave the remote to his other daughter who needed one, again without asking and it took him weeks again to get another one. And there are lots of other incidences where he has make big decisions without asking me what I think
I am more angry now than I was then. I told him that actually yes he would do something like that and no it isnt funny to say you have sold my laptop. It escalated and now I am still in bed upset and wishing I had more sense and left him years ago. He has no respect for me at all does he?