I left a controlling and abusive relationship last year and although I am now much happier I walked away with debt of about £6k due to the financial abuse. I feel the debt is a constant reminder of the relationship and stopping me moving on.
I am finally in a place where I feel able to tackle this without getting overwhelmed.
I have set up minimum payments for all the debts and am using the snowball method to tackle the ones with the highest interest rates first, however even doing this, the debt won’t be cleared until 2024! 😕
I currently pay 7% of my wages into my pension. Work matches this.
I want to know if I would be unreasonable to reduce my pension contributions to 1% per month temporarily. I could then clear all the debts in 18 months, before increasing my contributions back up to 7% or maybe more.
I’m 36 and have been paying into my pension for 10 years. Work allow us to change the contribution rate as many times as we choose so long as we give a months notice.
Yabu - why would you even consider doing this?! The impact on your pension isn’t worth it
Yanbu - it’s only temporary and any impact is worth it for the peace of mind which is sometimes worth more than money.