DH asked me last night if I was free on the 18th December, proceeded to tell me that it was his work Christmas party (meal out), tell me where it was, what the food would be like etc etc, and then, just as I was getting really excited about it, he told me that partners weren't invited. He said that he didn't want to tell me first off that I couldn't go, because that didn't seem nice. But why he couldn't say "are you OK to take care of DD on the 18th so I can go to the work party?" is beyond me.
I was a bit depressed about it this morning, and the lack of exciting social occasions in my life and his answer was "well, you can look for a job today"!!! There are many reasons why that's a bad idea (not least that I can't just conjure up childcare and we're planning that I'll have complicated and disruptive fertility treatment soon), but why couldn't he just be sympathetic that I used to have an exciting job where I spoke to adults all day, and that sometimes I miss that grown-up contact. When he complains about some of his work collegues I don't tell him to jack in his job.
So AIBU?
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To think that DH should have told me that I wasn't invited to his work Christmas party BEFORE I got really excited about it.
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MrsTittleMouse · 30/10/2007 07:58
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