Am I being unreasonable to think that my ex husband is being unfair to say that I should buy everything for our kids because I don't work and get 'money from the government?' I'm a stay at home mum as I was when he left me. He left me for someone else so I was left to support kids alone. He's never paid anything since he left 2.5 years ago. He's bought the children the odd outfit but That's it. He sees them twice a week at the moment. Every time I say he needs to help supper then he says he works and pays bills and I get money from the government. Yes I claim benefits but that's because he won't help with childcare. He has a partner who he has a baby quickly with and now she's pregnant again, she works too and he helps her with childcare so apparently I don't deserve any support from him. I am benefit capped so don't get any help with rent, I get tax credits but it doesn't go very far and I'm expected to provide everything for the kids. I've never been difficult with contact, always allowed him to see the kids when it suits him and his partners job whilst putting my prospects on hold yet he can't help me out when I'm in need, kids need new coats and shoes and everything and it seems like it's just my responsibility. He called the kids chavs the other day to their face because they were arguing and said they live in a chavy area . Just gets me down 😒