[quote SpeverendRooner]@AStudyinPink - the best I can do is this. How could you tell if something was expanding? From a distance, where you can see the edges, you could take a sequence of photos and compare the sizes over time. But what if you can't see the edges? Like if something really big like the Earth were expanding (and we had no satellites or distant vantage points). Well, we could stick two stakes in the ground and measure the distance between them with a ruler and see if they were moving apart. We'd need a lot more than two stakes, because we'd want to see that it was a global things, not just something like a landslip dragging one of the stakes somewhere. That method would work whether there were an edge and we couldn't see it, or there were no edge.
The galaxies we see out there are what we use instead of stakes in the ground. And everywhere we look they are moving away from us, the further away the faster. Furthermore, if you look at the pattern of movement in detail, it turns out that it wouldn't matter where you stood - you would always see the same thing, everything far from you moving away, the further the faster. That means that there's no center that everything is moving away from, but rather everything is moving away from everything else. What better word for that than expansion?
So "space is expanding".
I explained the reason for "infinite" earlier. The laws of physics look the same everywhere we can see and the universe looks the same everywhere we can see. So you have to assume that the laws change somewhere in order to get an edge. It's a bit like (before the 1960s) it was only an assumption that the moon had an other side. We'd never seen it until the Apollo missions, so a strict positivist would have regarded the hypothesis that it has an other side as unproven. But every other thing we've ever seen has a reverse side if it has a front side, and a thing that had only one side and just wasn't there from the other side is so alien to everything that we know that it's implausible. So it is with the universe. Everywhere we can see, you would see the same thing, everything travelling away from you. Why would that change somewhere we can't see? "Because you find the conclusion unintuitive" is not such a reason.
So space is expanding and it's infinite.
There are an enormous number of holes in that explanation. If you want a robust model, you need the maths.[/quote]
Great explanation, thanks for trying to translate to simple examples