@StormcloakNord Thank you. I have just read most of the comments and agree.
Too many posters to individually respond to everyone, but all comments have been taken on board. Some are fair and noted and it is good to see individual points of view and issues which I had overlooked, but some comments are quite frankly rude.
The whole idea of the thread was to gain opinions. Some people seem to struggle with the notion that two people can have differing opinions without it meaning one is in the wrong? I have been called childish, I don't see how having an opinion that you don't agree with is childish. I might not agree with you (I am not sure, you had nothing else to say other than I was childish) but even if I didn't agree with you, I wouldn't be making comments like that.
I have also read comments saying that I need to be humbled? Listing their experiences telling me I need to go through the same and jobs are available to apply for me to see what it's like? Without realising, you've proven where my thought process came from in the first place really. I will repeat what I said in the op. Everyone has been affected in one way or another, some have suffered more, some have suffered less, but who are you to judge where on the scale someone falls. Have I judged you? No. Do you know my circumstances? No. So who are you to tell me I need to be humbled? Someone also patronisingly asked how many people I had seen die in the last week. Two. Is two satisfactory to you? Is two enough or does it need to be more to warrant me starting this thread?
I have suffered my own losses, I have also encountered unfavourable working conditions. I am close to people who work in the NHS. I am also close to people who work in other roles and have seen how they have struggled. It isn't a competition as to who has had toughest time in all this? Most have had a tough time to differing degrees, but what gives anyone the right to judge whether that time was actually tough enough which is what a lot of posters on this thread seem to be focused on. I didn't list all my experiences in the op because why does it matter? Why do people feel the need to list what they have been through? Some people have had awful experiences and I wouldn't wish for anyone to go through what they have, but it's turned into some sort of competition as to who is the worst off?
I have specifically said I don't begrudge NHS staff receiving a discount, but a lot of posters have gone on a rampage and been very defensive which also supports what I was originally trying to say that the disparity creates bad feeling.
My op wasn't about the amount of discount. Any capable person can type in "discount code for X" in Google and more often than not bring up plenty of voucher codes. The post is aimed at the businesses and their marketing strategy and how the message is communicated. I saw a local business advertising recently "To all our amazing NHS workers, to thank you for all you do, have a free pedicure when we reopen and in the meantime arrange to collect a goody bag from us". Do I begrudge the NHS having that treat? Do I hell. Brilliant, it is nice. It's not going to end the pandemic, but if that little gesture makes someone's day that little bit better then great. But, what about other people who have been on their feet all day, exhausted, struggling? Because they don't work for the NHS - to that specific organisation - they are not recognised. It causes bad feeling (wrongly then aimed at the NHS). Imbalance. People feeling a bit put out that their own hard work goes unnoticed. From a business perspective (to balance any losses) why not "It's been a shit year, why not cheer yourself up with 10% off X product/X treatment" to keep the community spirit up and even though I am not a fan of the slogan - reiterate the message "all in this together"?
If you don't agree, fine. But there is no need for some of the vicious comments which have been made.
NHS workers should receive a discount (which is unchanged from my original post) but it would be great if other roles could also be recognised as having been put through the ringer and not fall under the radar for a marketing strategy.