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justherefortheadvice · 23/01/2021 15:29

I need some help and advice on my relationship (if that's what you want to call it) we have been together for almost a year and half and I love them so so much, but I'm exhausted. My mental health is deteriorating, I feel like I'm not the same person I used to be. We argue a lot, they lie to me, it gets very volatile. Currently sat crying as I'm typing this. We live together and I can't leave due to the current climate. I almost feel trapped sometimes. But I love them so much, with all my heart like I've never loved before. The love is still there, it's just toxic. Don't get me wrong, it's not all bad. They do make me happy too and they do everything for me and I know they love me... Though these days, I feel like it's more pain than joy being in this relationship. So I'm guessing, when is it time to leave?
Nice comments only please.
Thanks.

OP posts:
RiojaRose · 23/01/2021 15:37

Love isn’t enough. You deserve to be respected. If your partner has been lying to you it’s time to leave.

partyatthepalace · 24/01/2021 02:30

If they lie to you and it’s volatile and it’s making you cry then it’s time to leave.

Go get some rest now and then get up in the morning. Don’t discuss it with your partner, just make plans and move.

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