My husband died last week. His sister lives overseas and isn’t going to attend his funeral. Attending would be difficult, although not impossible, because of Covid so I understand why she and her family aren’t coming (although I am, I confess, a bit surprised about blasé she seems about missing it).
She has spoken to me about scattering his ashes and has asked us to wait to do so until she is next in town. I want to scatter his ashes when the time feels right for me and my children, rather than being dictated to by when she can next be bothered to visit. AIBU?