I am my 90 year old mum’s carer - she lives with myself and my partner and has recently been diagnosed with vascular dementia. Both my partner and myself have serious underlying health conditions. We’ve been shielding for months. Mum has recently had the first part of her Covid vaccination but I have been advised that it will probably be spring before myself and my partner will get ours - if all goes according to plan.
I have already had to cancel two hospital appointments and a routine medical procedure for mum, as I am the only one who can take her and there are a couple more appointments coming up in the next few weeks. If I take her to these appointments as normal I am putting myself and my partner at risk - and possibly mum herself for a little while as she is only partially protected. One procedure I have cancelled would have meant admitting her to a ward for a whole day, and our local hospital is reported as being overwhelmed with Covid inpatients. The hospital are in agreement that the best course of action in the circumstances would be to cancel everything until we are all vaccinated.
My GP informs me that I am registered as a carer with them but they are unable to help until they are authorised to vaccinate the appropriate categories - vaccine supplies are restricted to the various priority groups as they are rolled out. If anything were to happen to me, mum would certainly end up in care so it doesn’t seem to make sense that home carers have to wait for protection despite the duty of care. In one way I feel ungrateful as - in our area at least - NHS services are available despite Covid and we’re lucky to be offered treatment, but I’m wondering just how many people are in a similar situation. So my question is am I being unreasonable to think that the government has completely failed to consider the needs of a vast army of unpaid home carers, without whom there would certainly be a lot more of our elderly folk needing full time care ?