Hi there
Not really an AIBU, more a WWYD.
YANBU = I tell her
YABU = I don't
Yesterday while scrolling Facebook, I noticed my cousin's partner commented on a woman's photo "very pretty".
It picked my curiosity so I went further. The account is of a woman posting sexy photos in lingerie or tight dress. They are loads of other comments, all men, all similar "very pretty", "very elegant" (absolutely not), etc.
It's a professional page, not personal. So it's probably a business for her. Modern peep show
I looked at the comment section of each photos, and his comments date back about a week, all similar. In reponse to one of his comment, was a message mentioning casual sex with an email address, that poster was different but the email address was similar to the page name. It could be a totally different scammer or not. He asked "is it normal?" and that poster replied this is how they make their money.
This really makes me feel uncomfortable for my cousin. She doesn't have Facebook so can't find out by herself. I talked about it to our other cousin who told me it would be better to wait if it continues. Its unlikely to materialise, as I said, its probably just an online sex line or something like that.
Their couple is already, has been for years on the brink, they started dated when she was a minor, he's 10 years older and treat her like dirt. He's a cock-lodger and always gives her nasty comments in front of everyone.
If it was me I would want to know but maybe not her ? Maybe after all, it's just commenting on photos, it would never get further ?
There is no way I can tell her face to face as we live in different countries.
Please give me your opinion