My neighbours and I don't get on, she has reported me to our landlord twice for noise disturbances. This has been when I have had a few people over (when we were allowed) for drinks, nothing crazy, but she said it was like we're "jumping through the walls" and that she can hear our conversations even though we were talking at a low volume. It could have been the music that bothered her, I didn't think it was loud but it could have been. I said I was very sorry and tried to be quieter.
There was one incident where a group of men were trying to get into my home and threatening to key the car on the driveway if I didn't let them in, there was commotion outside the house and she came outside. I apologised profusely and explained the situation to her and she seemed to understand. It was completely out of my control but I can completely see why she was annoyed by this.
I live alone with my 2 year old but my sister has moved in with us temporarily.
A few weeks ago at around 10pm I had members of my bubble over and she came banging on the door and window, shouting and swearing and saying I was keeping her daughter up. I apologised and said I didn't even realise that it was loud and to text me again if there were any issues. She then went on to call the police after this.
The members of my bubble haven't been round for a month now, and even when they were, we were quiet. Talking at what I would see to be a normal volume.
She ignores my son, my sister and myself whenever we see her outside the house. We live in a row of three houses, hers being in the middle. She and the other neighbour sill be stood outside talking when I pull up on the drive and they completely blank me.
I sent her a nice message the other day asking if a package for me had been delivered to her home, and she replied with just "no".
I try to be friendly but she is rude and seems to hate me because of the previous "noise disturbances".
About twenty minutes ago, she sent me a message saying "hi could you keep it down it sounds like you are stamping on the walls". This was whilst I was on my bed with my son and my sister was downstairs putting groceries away?! The only noise could be us walking around, shutting doors or maybe the dog going up/down the stairs.
It is stressing me out and I feel uncomfortable. I want to say something to her but I am scared of her and it is awkward having to see her all the time. She lives with her partner and their 1 year old.