Hi all,
I just need some opinions really, some unbiased opinions.
Quick back story, I was made redundant due to covid in August before hand I had my job for 8 years from full time to part time since having my boys 2 and 3. So like everyone, I am at home, my family live 40 miles away so obviously not seeing them at the moment and the few friends I did have, have moved out of the area, so feeling pretty lonely.
My partner works full time and shifts, he likes to be involved with everything so I can’t just make a meal and it be ok for example, he likes to have input and to be honest does the cooking and i basically clean, look after the kids needs, washing up etc.
Anyway last night he got back earlier that he should’ve so I had eaten with the kids before him and settled down for an early night, he comes in and he said he was going to get a takeaway and I went to bed.
So I wake up this morning and he hasn’t had takeaway, he’d cooked, but when I say every surface is covered in pans and plates covered in food and him asleep on the sofa. So I’m annoyed, I say ‘oh I can see what you had for dinner last night’ and look unimpressed but instead of a I’m sorry, he says to me ‘why should I say sorry, you’re here all day’ and then when I argue back telling him that’s disrespectful, it’s degenerates and turned into a slanging match.
Now don’t get me wrong, the man cooks for us when he is here and I have no problem with washing up but am I being unreasonable for being pissed off this morning?
I feel so unappreciated now I’m not working, this is one of many things, I’d love loads of opinions but it would take all day.
Thank you if you got this far x