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AIBU?

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To think their reaction was OTT?

37 replies

username948472 · 17/01/2021 16:15

Prepared to be flamed for this as is often the case with the AIBU thread 😁. We have just got back from our local park. It is less than half a mile away. We have often walked there. However with the weather looking like it might rain and having a 3 and a 1 year old we decided to drive. Also the 3year old sometimes gets tired and wants carrying. It’s a small park and thought it would probably be quiet compared to bigger parks. Plus obviously staying in our local area.
When we got out of the car a man walking his dog stopped and stared at us. My DH said hello the man didn’t react he just carried on glaring at us. We just thought he was abit strange and went into the park to which we were the only ones there.

Upon returning to the car a woman was stood nearby got her phone out and started to take pictures of us. I was in shock and didn’t say anything. I really wish I had now.

I get they probably thought we had come from out the area. But I just find their reaction extreme. We do not live in beauty spot, it’s a quiet area with a very small park. Only local people would actually know about it.

Im also really angry she took pictures of us especially if the DC are in them. Another factor that I’m not sure if I should mention or not or if was a contributing factor or not is the fact DH is of a ethnic minority. There has been a lot of horrible underhand comments recently on our local Facebook group blaming ‘certain people’ for spreading the virus.

Also just thought I would add where we parked was fine. Not anywhere we shouldn’t/or blocking anyone.

AIBU?
YABU - yes their reaction was fine
YANBU - it was OTT

OP posts:
1forAll74 · 17/01/2021 18:11

I would have said, oh hello, you are yet another stupid person who has turned into a Covid photo taking weirdo. This was her mission for the day, recording all and sundry, she probably had some dog poo photo's on the camera as well. Shame it would be an offence to snatch the camera off her, and jump on it !!

Whammyyammy · 17/01/2021 18:12

She was just a jumped up self appointed covid warden. Your house is less than a mile, imo you've done absolutely nothing wrong.

Fuss · 17/01/2021 18:14

I'd have gathered the family and posed for the daft cow.

username948472 · 17/01/2021 18:31

@Fuss

I'd have gathered the family and posed for the daft cow.
I wish I had the guts 🤣🤣🤣
OP posts:
Whiskysoda · 17/01/2021 18:57

Upon returning to the car a woman was stood nearby got her phone out and started to take pictures of us. I was in shock and didn’t say anything. I really wish I had now

More fool you, I’d have ripped the fucking phone out of her hands and thrown it...but then I’m not one yo be taken for a mug.

Santaiscovidfree · 17/01/2021 19:02

My neighbour hid under a table in her lounge taking pics of me and my dc...
Because I had legally parked in my own street. Outside her house where my permit allows. I told her if I saw her take any more I would be reporting her to the police.
They sound bonkers too op...
So they could be there but you couldn't?? Nuts!

LagneyandCasey · 17/01/2021 19:03

What a pair of arseholes. You are allowed to drive to a local park ffs.

If they have contacted the police, a quick registration check will tell them how close by you live. Hopefully they'll be laughed at or told off for wasting police time.

Sinful8 · 17/01/2021 19:30

@Whiskysoda

Upon returning to the car a woman was stood nearby got her phone out and started to take pictures of us. I was in shock and didn’t say anything. I really wish I had now

More fool you, I’d have ripped the fucking phone out of her hands and thrown it...but then I’m not one yo be taken for a mug.

Awesome so who's taking care of your kids while your inside?
nothingcanhurtmewithmyeyesshut · 17/01/2021 19:41

I'd have demanded to know why they were taking pics of strange children and filmed them doing it.

lljkk · 17/01/2021 19:58

The police will laugh at them if they tried to "report". It was their time to waste. Don't let this take up any more of your energy.

WorraLiberty · 17/01/2021 21:37

@peak2021

If the police contact you, they will know it is half a mile, presumably the nearest park, and then you can advised of the ages of your DC.

You will then put a complaint in about their behaviour of taking pictures of your DC. Difficult to allege racism as if you were the only people other than them in the park, you cannot prove they have treated others differently.

You will then put a complaint in about their behaviour of taking pictures of your DC

She will? Why?

It's not illegal.

Unicant · 17/01/2021 21:43

Some people are absolute uptight wierdos and if it wasnt about covid it would be about something else. These people were weirdos and were being totally OTT but just forget about it now.. you've been within your rights to shout at them there and then but I wouldn't let it bother you any more because theres absolutely nothing they can do. If they tried to report you to the police they'd get told to stop wasting police time and taking pictures of peoples cars.
Dont be frightened to drive your kids to the local park of you need to youve just been unlucky encountering some twats... it happens to us all now and again I'm sorry this hapoend to you its stressful.

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