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Not to wash my pillows

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Pill0wTalk · 14/01/2021 12:18

Just seen on ThisMorning that after 2 years, if unwashed, 10% of a pillow is made up of dust mites and dead skin etc.

Phil and a Holly looked disgusted at the thought of anyone not washing their pillows on a regular basis. I can honestly say, I've NEVER washed my pillows! Is it just me?

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DappledThings · 14/01/2021 13:36

I've only ever washed pillows if one of the DC has vomited on them. Which is a very rare occurence. And once when DD had a wee accident whilst sleeping upside down in her bed so wee got on the pillow!

91divoc · 14/01/2021 13:50

I don't wash them as they go funny after a wash. I replace them probably every 1-2 years. When I wash the pillow cases, I normally air them outside if that helps :/

movingonup20 · 14/01/2021 14:02

I replace every 2 years or so. Dp has feather which he washes each summer

orangenasturtium · 14/01/2021 14:19

Dry cleaning bedding isn't recommended because of the chemical residue that is left behind. It's not a great idea to spend 8 hours a day with your face sandwiched between a duvet and pillow, breathing in carcinogenic fumes.

ShizzleMyNizzle · 14/01/2021 14:20

Only 10%? I chalk that up as a win.

VenusClapTrap · 14/01/2021 14:23

I’ve never washed a pillow.

I’ve never suffered from an unclean pillow related illness either.

djdd · 14/01/2021 14:25

This is grim and I've just ordered new pillows for the whole house Envy

Resisterance · 14/01/2021 14:27

I take them to a service wash at laundrette once a year along with duvets

Resisterance · 14/01/2021 14:28

Mine are feather and wash fine with a service wash and drying in a big tumble dryer

Averyyounggrandmaofsix · 14/01/2021 14:34

I use pillow protectors under pillow cases and replace when needed. I don't keep a record of such things.

PrincessNutNuts · 14/01/2021 15:11

I wash my pillows a couple of times throughout the year and sometimes just peg them out to air on hot days

My firm feather IKEA cushions survived a wash so I surmised that the pillows would too.

I change the beds every other week, hoover mattresses and pillows and wash duvets several times a year.

We have those adjustable duvets which are a spring 3.5 tog and an autumn 9 tog velcroed together. You switch from one to the other or use both depending on the temperature. And they all go in a 10kg washing machine because they're not as thick as a 12.5 duvet.

CSIblonde · 14/01/2021 15:58

After finding the filling separates & goes lumpy when washed I use pillow protectors then buy new pillows when they're getting a bilat. Pillow protectors definitely stop sweat marks etc n

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LochJessMonster · 14/01/2021 16:08

I wash them once a year, on a hot day in Summer so they can dry and air in the garden.

SchrodingersImmigrant · 14/01/2021 16:32

I don6 wash mine but I always hoover them and ince in few months freeze them if there is a space in a freezer

Rainbowx · 14/01/2021 16:42

No never washed I replace yearly

wixked · 14/01/2021 16:47

You can wash them if down or feather filled. You just need to thoroughly dry them in a tumble dryer with tennis balls to get the clumps to loosen up. They come out great. You certainly don't need to throw them out. They wash really well.

DianaT1969 · 14/01/2021 17:58

I would totally dispute that claim of 10%.
If most people only use a pillowcase and wash it weekly, that's a preventive measure.
Lots of people use pillow protectors too.
Many pillows have antibacterial and anti-dustmite covers and filling. Mine does.

LakieLady · 14/01/2021 18:14

I've never washed pillows without them ending up out of shape and lumpy, so now I just replace them when they get grotty. And I use pillow protectors, which I wash regularly, so they don't get grotty that often.

Having said that, my current pillows (cheap as chips, from Sainsbury's) are holding their shape really well, so I may risk washing them and see how they fare. I hate the throwaway thing.

ChocOrange1 · 14/01/2021 18:23

I dont understand what is so bad about dust mites and skin cells? Are people getting allergic reactions to their pillows or getting ill from it? If not why does it matter?

In my opinion the point of cleaning is to make sure you don't get ill and for aesthetics. Nobody sees the inside of my pillow and it's not making me unwell, so why would I clean it?

LakieLady · 14/01/2021 22:03

Dust mites are a common allergen. I was skin tested for allergies and the bit of my arm that they dropped the "essence of dust mite" on blew up into an enormous blister.

Apparently, people who think they they are allergic to dust usually aren't, it's nearly always the dust mites that get them.

TheYearOfSmallThings · 14/01/2021 22:06

I ruined the best pillow in the world by washing it (stupidly believing people who blithely said it would bouff up in the drier with a tennis ball. It did not.).

From now on I'm going to fester comfortably in my own dead skin cells thanks very much.

Enidblyton1 · 14/01/2021 22:17

Me neither OP!
Some of my pillows are ancient. Never been washed. Not knowingly suffered from any dirty pillow related illnesses.

letsdolunch321 · 14/01/2021 22:28

Replace mine every 6 months. Can't be faffing about washing them.

Replace duvets once a year, beds changed every week.

Voice0fReason · 14/01/2021 22:35

I wash mine a couple of times a year.
They go through the washing machine just fine, then I either put them out in the sun or in the tumble dryer.

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