It's another Tinder thread.....
Please don't judge and to be kind, I've come here as I struggle with my feelings and its making me feel down.
I've met a few dates over the past few months, I've got on well with all of them. I'm now currently down to talking a lot to 2. Both lovely guys. They both live about 30/45 mins away. Yes I've slept with both of them. #1 I met just before NY and I ended up spending NY with him. There was a lot of Chemistry. And I like him a lot. Like so much it hurts. And I hate how I feel I just want to snap out of it because guy #2 shows more interest and seems more keen. I can't even describe it, #1 was like love at first sight and I want to move my feelings to guy #2. It's hard to explain. Both speak everyday but I get on better with #2 but #1 I prefer to speak with as he's the one I'm basically falling for. I'm late 20s so I feel so stupid I even feel like this. I haven't felt like this towards anyone in years. Normally I take a long time to feel how I do.
How did you cope when this happened or does anyone have any suggestions how to snap out of it with #1? I wish my feelings towards #1 were the feelings I have towards #2. I do like #2 but how I feel.towards #1 basically hurts. #1 I have to even be careful what I say to him as I wanna say the right thing, which I guess sounds bad. He knows I like him a lot and he says he likes me too and wants to see me again. #2 seems more keen to meet again than #1. I can't even explain it, I just want to snap about of basically being in love with #1. And need to know how to. I probably sound stupid and fully prepared to be told it too. It's making me feel down. What #2 does it what I want #1 to do. #1 doesn't talk about meeting again or video calls yet #2 does, I wish I felt more strongly for #2!
Okay I'm rambling on and fully prepared to be laughed at. Normally I don't feel feelings this quick which is why I can't cope with them.