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To have the 'odd' fag

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FrankButchersDickieBow · 12/01/2021 23:38

I don't smoke. I can go days/weeks without smoking. But sometimes, when I have a drink, I really want a fag.

I do drink a couple of glasses of wine through the week tbh, but never want a cig. But sometimes, every know and again, I just really fancy a fag.

So I can smoke 2 fags in 10 days.

Would you class me as a smoker, if I have half a fag or two once a week?

I know I don't need it, but it tastes so good after a couple of wines

OP posts:
Winterwoollies · 13/01/2021 08:22

I used to smoke, generally when pissed, but still a smoker. I cannot however get on board with the idea that it is soooo tasty 🤢

girlcrushonvillanelle · 13/01/2021 08:25

I'm a fair weather smoker, tend to only smoke during the summer when I have a drink.

After the kids have gone to bed etc on a nice summers evening in the garden.

girlcrushonvillanelle · 13/01/2021 08:27

Although I only smoke Menthols so I'm hoping we will be able to go abroad again soon to buy some.

charliespie · 13/01/2021 08:30

@Chicchicchicchiclana

I smoke about 10 a week and don't really consider myself a smoker so you're definitely not op.

I can't work out of this is sarcasm or not Confused

Campervan69 · 13/01/2021 08:31

I was the same, only ever a social smoker really anyway. But liked a smoke occasionally when I had a drink. I could have an open pack of fags in my night out bag for months. Didn't usually even finish the fag -couple of puffs, head rush, big smile 😄

Meruem · 13/01/2021 09:02

I know a few occasional social smokers. I look at it more this way, if I went running 6 times a year it would be utterly ridiculous to call myself a runner! People would laugh if I did that! So I don’t class those who have the odd cig as smokers. Although if you’re doing it weekly, then yes you are a smoker even if it’s just one or two.

vodkaredbullgirl · 13/01/2021 09:07

I like an alcoholic drink once a week, doesn't make me an alcoholic.

BadLad · 13/01/2021 09:10

@vodkaredbullgirl

I like an alcoholic drink once a week, doesn't make me an alcoholic.
True. But it means you are not a teetotaler.
emilyfrost · 13/01/2021 09:13

Of course you’re a smoker. Regardless of how few or many you have, if you smoke cigarettes, you’re a smoker.

vodkaredbullgirl · 13/01/2021 09:14

Are zebra's black with white strips or white with black strips?

ParkheadParadise · 13/01/2021 09:15

I smoked 20/30 a day.
I stopped a couple of years ago. I would love to have an occasional fag BUT I know if I had one I would be back on them.

IEat · 13/01/2021 09:16

Social smoker

gamerchick · 13/01/2021 09:18

I always fancy one when I'm having a drink but it's always bloody horrible. I much prefer just smelling other people do it Grin

LeSquigh · 13/01/2021 09:19

I wouldn’t class you as a smoker. I smoked (and fucking LOVED it) for 20 years but I can up about 6 years ago and have vaped since. I very occasionally have the odd small cigar if I get the craving, which gives the same hit but also reminds me of how disgusting it is and how much it makes me smell. I haven’t had one for over a year and I can take or leave that craving. I still love the smell of cigarette smoke though.

LeSquigh · 13/01/2021 09:19

*gave up

charliespie · 13/01/2021 09:23

@vodkaredbullgirl

I like an alcoholic drink once a week, doesn't make me an alcoholic.

Again, it makes you a drinker.

vodkaredbullgirl · 13/01/2021 09:27

Hmm okay what ever.

TheGoogleMum · 13/01/2021 09:30

Maybe it depends a little who wants to know if you are a smoker or not! If someone is just making conversation is asking i wouldn't begrudge you saying you don't smoke (or barely smoke). Insurance, medically, id say you do smoke but if you get chance clarify how little.

fuzzyduck1 · 13/01/2021 09:31

Look on the bright side of it if tour a smoker when you retire your private pension will pay more because your deemed to have a shorter life expectancy

Porcupineintherough · 13/01/2021 09:32

Non smokers dont smoke.
Smokers may smoke occasionally, or a 20 a day, but what they have in common is they put things in their mouths and light them.

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