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BBC Radio 4 PM Evan Davis

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Harriedharriet · 12/01/2021 22:25

Introducing PM today Evan Davis introduced the segment on the abuses in the homes for unmarried women and children in Ireland saying "the appaling abuse on the CHILDREN of unmarried mothers."
I am horrified. The women were treated like sub humans, had their children wrenched, and stolen. Some of the babies died. Some were farmed out for adoption. There was an active conspiracy between the church and the state to keep them apart for ever, loose records, lie, and deceive. The cruelty and mysogny at the heart of this cannot be overstated.
I cannot begin to imagine the life long suffering inflicted on those women.
I hate that this journalist ignored them in his intro. I do not know why I am so upset. (Bring back Eddie Marr)
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Harriedharriet · 12/01/2021 22:33

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capercaillie · 12/01/2021 22:45

I’m at the point of giving up on the PM programme- it’s too reliant on Evan Davis who seems very stuck on his own world viewpoint. His reporting on education throughout the pandemic has been awful. So I’m not surprised he’s managed to only report part of the story here

ButwhereisMYcoffee · 12/01/2021 22:50

I was so horrified reading the news reports (haven’t read the actual report yet but really want to) and so glad that it highlighted the fact that society itself massively maligned these women, families rejecting pregnant daughters, and that the men, the fathers of these children, had a huge responsibility morally for just abandoning these poor women to be treated like prisoners and criminals. Despite how awful the homes were, the women were driven into them as they had literally nowhere else to go (and sometimes were literally forced into them). A massive stain on our island.

I mean we have so far to go in many ways but thank christ we have come so far.

ButwhereisMYcoffee · 12/01/2021 22:51

In that we have left behind all concept of ‘illegitimate’ children.

ButwhereisMYcoffee · 12/01/2021 22:52

And yes, any comment should be about the women and children harmed.

NoOneOwnsTheRainbow · 12/01/2021 22:53

YANBU. The BBC news article was really badly researched too. Looked quoted from Wikipedia, complete with uncritically accepting dubious information as fact.

Rosie2000 · 12/01/2021 22:59

Listen to Radio 4 at around 10.20pm tonight on BBC sounds-excellent interview with one of the women who was in one of these ‘homes’. She spoke about leaving Ireland and going to work in Luxembourg where she realised there were single women with children working with her, she hadn’t thought this was possible when she lived in Ireland. They discussed where the blame was- the church, state and/or society, very interesting and appalling.
I heard pm earlier, it’s all very ‘sound bites’ and no empathy.

Harriedharriet · 12/01/2021 23:10

@capercaillie

I’m at the point of giving up on the PM programme- it’s too reliant on Evan Davis who seems very stuck on his own world viewpoint. His reporting on education throughout the pandemic has been awful. So I’m not surprised he’s managed to only report part of the story here
Thank goodness I am not alone Capercaillie. The programme has really gone down hill, and in my view it is down to his "lets all get along and be reasonable". There is very little rigour. And he is ALWAYS blind to women in stories. Always. Agree with his reporting on education - also for him a woman area.
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Harriedharriet · 12/01/2021 23:11

@ButwhereisMYcoffee

And yes, any comment should be about the women and children harmed.
Yes it should. Many women who were put through that system are still alive. Imagine them listening to that?
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Harriedharriet · 12/01/2021 23:12

@Rosie2000

Listen to Radio 4 at around 10.20pm tonight on BBC sounds-excellent interview with one of the women who was in one of these ‘homes’. She spoke about leaving Ireland and going to work in Luxembourg where she realised there were single women with children working with her, she hadn’t thought this was possible when she lived in Ireland. They discussed where the blame was- the church, state and/or society, very interesting and appalling. I heard pm earlier, it’s all very ‘sound bites’ and no empathy.
Thank you, I will.
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Aahotep · 12/01/2021 23:12

I miss Eddie

ISBN111 · 12/01/2021 23:14

Argh, he is the voice of ‘The Bottom Line’ and seems to take the same approach to PM. . I’ve stopped listening.

Harriedharriet · 12/01/2021 23:15

@NoOneOwnsTheRainbow

YANBU. The BBC news article was really badly researched too. Looked quoted from Wikipedia, complete with uncritically accepting dubious information as fact.
It is not a story that I have followed or know much about except from today. But if you tease a story about 9,000 dead children then that is 9,000 women (and 9,000 men or maybe less depending on circumstance) who have simultaneously suffered.
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SilverShins · 12/01/2021 23:18

@Aahotep

I miss Eddie
But Eddie hasn't gone, he's just moved to LBC. He's wonderful, just change your listening habits between 4 and 7 and hey presto, you have him back in your life Wink
nanbread · 12/01/2021 23:18

I listened to his show today and thought he didn't really seem to be listening to his interviewees, just replied with a hmm and onto the next question.

I didn't notice his intro, but imagine it wasn't written by him. The following piece on the subject seemed more balanced.

A horrifying part of history. 9000 dead.

He's no John Humphreys.

Harriedharriet · 12/01/2021 23:46

@nanbread

I listened to his show today and thought he didn't really seem to be listening to his interviewees, just replied with a hmm and onto the next question.

I didn't notice his intro, but imagine it wasn't written by him. The following piece on the subject seemed more balanced.

A horrifying part of history. 9000 dead.

He's no John Humphreys.

Well, why don't they write their own stuff? It is a flag ship show, he is the voice of it and he cannot bother to write his own material? Bloody hell.
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peak2021 · 13/01/2021 07:12

Factual inaccuracies should be challenged. The scandal of ill-treatment and worse of unmarried mothers in Ireland is not new news and so anyone who has read even a small amount about the issue should be correct on this.

CouldItBeCake · 13/01/2021 07:38

YANBU on the abuses of women, and not mincing words about who was abused. Fortunately the Irish premier’s statement didn’t make a similar mistake.

But I have actually really enjoyed PM during this year.

Aahotep · 13/01/2021 07:39

@SilverShins
Yay thank you

Velvian · 13/01/2021 07:40

I miss Eddie too. Sad

endofthelinefinally · 13/01/2021 07:41

I followed Eddie Mair to LBC. He does a similar programme at 5pm every day.

Clymene · 13/01/2021 07:41

I don't listen to radio 4 at all now. It's gone so downhill.

JohnMiddleNameRedactedSwanson · 13/01/2021 07:42

@Aahotep

I miss Eddie
He’s on LBC 4-7pm!
EveryDayIsADuvetDay · 13/01/2021 07:45

PM and the today program are very much rapid fire type presentations - and there is a lot to cover at the moment.
I'm frequently irritated when an interview that is just getting interesting is cut short due to lack of time (or equally when interviewee states "I am not prepared to comment on individual cases" or similar, and the 'journalist' just asks the same question over and over.
That said, R4 does have more in depth programs.

nanbread · 13/01/2021 09:30

Well, why don't they write their own stuff? It is a flag ship show, he is the voice of it and he cannot bother to write his own material?

Maybe he does write it, I don't know, but he'll have a team of researchers who provide info to him, which he may or may not have based that on. Not saying it's ok though.

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